Ok...I get you. But would you buy a really attractive, super comfy car that was tempramental and prone to breaking down...veering of the road without warning even?
If it's without any semblence of reliability, it's just not going to fulfill it's purpose - safe, comfortable carriage from A to B.
For any woman to be of interest to me in any way, she has to inspire admiration and respect through the sheer strength of her personality.
And no, that doesn't mean being overly demostrative or outspoken - quite the opposite in fact. She's bright enough to know how to deal with a whole host of situations and people without fuss...discreetly.
It takes an idiot not to value such a lady...indeed we'd feel stupid if we upset such a person by being hard headed and un-appreciative.
RE: True U.S.A
Mr Expert lives in 'lonesome town' the last I heard.