After reading the plethura of heated discussions and yes angry outbursts etc ... it comes to mind that humans love pain.
Why is it that physically speaking we can learn so quickly...ie when we touch a hot stove, it freakin burns so we learn quickly never to do it again.
Yet when it comes to love, emotion, philosophy, religion, personal issues, we hang on to the pain for ages; grab that pain and submerse ourselves and indeed continue to repeat the same patterns as we did before? People saying they seem only to meet the same kind of person, jerks of course, and have not been able to free themselves of that choice as if there's some magnet that draws them to hellish relationships. People who when the threads get heated almost beg someone to let it go when it is not even them involved except from arms length. No one makes you... be anywhere, so consider why, it is happening for you.
Returning to the heat of that stove, there are people who can put their hand there and leave it there, having learned to see/feel beyond the pain and or revel in it. Atheletes whose pain tolerance is far beyond anything I would accept.
Personally I think they're nuts but it works for them -then- how could I ignore what they may know? When you see/feel the heat emotionally its not always the wisest to let it go?,... grab on and learn. Hangin on just means you have a reason to be there or you'd be somewhere else?When you can see/feel beyond your pain, there is an amazing world, one that needs to be tolerated in harmony (aka chaos at its best) ... I think.
well we are just doing what Eric asked us to do,and marty and I woody do anyone for him; something about you being nekkid when he got there ... he's paying big time ya know!!!
BnaturAl Forum Posts (6,811)
Returning to the scene of the crime
true , but freedom/ease comes from that long hard look ...