Either tell her that you would prefer not to listen to information about her ex, ask her out on a date, or tell her that you cannot see her until she is over him.
I find this is a problem, some people are so desperate to launch from one relationship to another and find that they have not recovered and healed from their last relationship. Seems the attitude is, getting over one partner by getting under another.
I did that when I split from my ex husband, I went straight into another relationship because I was terrified of being alone, I succeeded in hurting a man badly, not intentionally but because I was so emotionally battered from the breakdown of my relationship, not a nice thing to do.
So, here I am a year later, alone, but happy being that way, if I meet a person then great, if not then I am just as happy being on my own, with my children and my life.
Learning to love oneself is important, once that has happened, only then can a person go on and truly love another person, not use another person to put out some old flames.
I love Salzburg, I love my home too, but I do have to return to work in three weeks, I have had since the middle of June off work and been home all this time.
Where are you in the South West, did I read Salisbury? Very pretty.
I think true love does find us, it is then up to us how much time we want to invest in it.
I do not seek anyone, but if I connect with a person then I know it will be right if I find myself wanting to speak to him alot and if he likes me then he will make the effort.
That sounds delightful, Rusty, I am sure it is, I love quiet peaceful holidays, such as this, but I chose to come here this year and have a nice peaceful holiday at my house.
You should try living in the Middle East, they are all hammered out there, sun, and lots of alcohol. I hated every moment of it, Europe is so civilised.
I have lived in five countries and the one that I have enjoyed the most has been Austria.
People have a view that Austrian people are boring, but they are not at all, they are smart, intelligent, take care of their country and are wonderful welcoming people.
It is interesting debate, I see how people look at British people and they feel that we are polite, or we get drunk alot and fight.
We are seen as polite because we often open a sentence with 'I am sorry' so people find it amusing why we open a sentence with an apology, Americans come right out with it, which is why they are seen as loud.
Each country has it's own people who are different, the Austrian people are not highly emotional people, they are sorted and do not do emotional drama, they get on with it and deal with their problems.
When I lived in Bahrain, I loved the natives there, but the British put me off, they were all drunk.
We are a very class driven kingdom, maybe that is because of the Royal Family, but I do think that.
However, I have not let it put me off, about being responsible and there is still a stigma attached to giving out details to online buddies, I have no problem with that, the only thing I do not give out is my private home telephone number, my mobile and email are ok, they can be blocked from there and a number changed.
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RE: if you could go out for dinner with anyone in the world?
Simon Cowell.