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Aug 3, 2008 11:25 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
How long on average has it taken you to decide that your romantic partner is marriage material?

Practical issues of timing (financial, school, or otherwise) aside, how long have you usually needed to decide whether the person you're with could be a lifelong partner?
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Aug 3, 2008 11:26 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
confused
if we were qualified to make that choice we wouldnt be at CS

maybe email the couples that have taken the plunge?

dunno


hi sweetiewave

i would say pray but youd just pick that suggestion apart
rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 3, 2008 11:27 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
dunno

How longs a piece of string. dunno









Twice the length from the middle to the end! idea


laugh


Helloooo wave hug
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Aug 3, 2008 11:27 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
when her chain and collar are good and broke in.....uh oh
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Aug 3, 2008 11:32 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Claayer: How longs a piece of string.
Twice the length from the middle to the end! Helloooo


blues roll eyes

Thanks, Claire. That's exactly the critical information I was desperately seeking. mumbling dunno sigh laugh wave
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Aug 3, 2008 11:34 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
mindfful: if we were qualified to make that choice we wouldnt be at CS

maybe email the couples that have taken the plunge?

hi sweetie

i would say pray but youd just pick that suggestion apart


roll eyes dunno help
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Aug 3, 2008 11:35 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Ambrose2007: How long on average has it taken you to decide that your romantic partner is marriage material?

Practical issues of timing (financial, school, or otherwise) aside, how long have you usually needed to decide whether the person you're with could be a lifelong partner?


I'll have to get back to ya on that one. Just because one person may feel that the other would be marriage material, it's kinda hard to carry it out if the other isn't feeling the same way (damn mixed signals...lol)

Oh yeah, I'm back from the cruise....can someone please tell the ship I'm on land now & it can stop rocking?
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Aug 3, 2008 11:35 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
jlw45: when her chain and collar are good and broke in.....



scold scold scold


conversing professor tongue


laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Aug 3, 2008 11:38 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
hrt4lse: I'll have to get back to ya on that one. Just because one person may feel that the other would be marriage material, it's kinda hard to carry it out if the other isn't feeling the same way (damn mixed signals...lol)

Oh yeah, I'm back from the cruise....can someone please tell the ship I'm on land now & it can stop rocking?


Having returned from the Love Boat, Denise, you'd probably be in a uniquely qualified position to answer my quandary.

Welcome back, hon!

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Aug 3, 2008 11:38 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
jlw45: when her chain and collar are good and broke in.....


scold rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 3, 2008 11:40 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
Ambrose2007: How long on average has it taken you to decide that your romantic partner is marriage material?

Practical issues of timing (financial, school, or otherwise) aside, how long have you usually needed to decide whether the person you're with could be a lifelong partner?


maybe its time...when you dont find yourself asking this question to yourself and you just "feel" it is right.dunno

I dont think there is really a certain "time", theres always things you can wait for...the list could go on and on.

yeah really I dont know, just wanted to say hi and i missed you.hug kiss bouquet
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Aug 3, 2008 11:45 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
I guess its when you can't imagine your future without that person in it....JMO


Hi Trudy
wave
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Aug 3, 2008 11:45 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Ambrose2007: Having returned from the Love Boat, Denise, you'd probably be in a uniquely qualified position to answer my quandary.

Welcome back, hon!


rolling on the floor laughing Love boat...yeah right rolling on the floor laughing

The one guy I was interested in spent time with me in order to get closer to my roommate sigh crying cool He doesn't know how big a mistake he made (my roommate already had a boyfriend). His loss & he'll never know how big.

There were a few hookups in the group though, one that started right off the bat from the first night and a couple of others that showed up about the 5th night in. One guy was really shutting himself down because he kept going from woman to woman & we started warning each other laugh

But it was a good trip.

Is your question because that's where you're thinking is going on your own behalf???
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Aug 3, 2008 11:46 AM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
DUBLINGUY1973: I guess its when you can't imagine your future without that person in it....JMOHi Trudy


Hiii dubwave bouquet are you staying out of trouble?
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Aug 3, 2008 12:08 PM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
When you don't have that urge to run when the "M" word is mentioned!laugh
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Aug 3, 2008 12:12 PM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I guess its when you can't imagine your future without that person in it....JMOHi Trudy




Excellent answer, Dub. thumbs up
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Aug 3, 2008 12:25 PM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
blue_eyed_blonde: Hiii dub are you staying out of trouble?


Moi? Of course! innocent angel rolling on the floor laughing

Thanks, Dana wave
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Aug 3, 2008 12:33 PM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
Ambrose2007: How long on average has it taken you to decide that your romantic partner is marriage material?

Practical issues of timing (financial, school, or otherwise) aside, how long have you usually needed to decide whether the person you're with could be a lifelong partner?
dont know, i am not looking for marriage, just an equal partner
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Aug 3, 2008 12:34 PM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
Ambrose2007: How long on average has it taken you to decide that your romantic partner is marriage material?

Practical issues of timing (financial, school, or otherwise) aside, how long have you usually needed to decide whether the person you're with could be a lifelong partner?
dont know, i am not looking for marriage, just an equal partner
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Aug 3, 2008 12:36 PM CST How long before you know it's "right"?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Never actually landed on the marriage phase...I suppose there were a few times where it came close...cool
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