Ambrose2007: I've been missing you, too, T. Though it's good to know you're in a happy place right now (I am right about that, aren't I?)
haha...yeah im mentally in a better place, physically im bck in iowa so am missing him some...but we will be okay...your always right tho, if ur wrong i would be the first to tell you..
HJFinAZ: Really? What if you don't want to "need" them, you would simply like to share a life with them?
There never has been one I could not live with out.. (or I would be long gone by now)....
then you haven't met the right one- we can all live without someone- but to be 'whole' it is nice to have someone that is that'other half'- yes we can all survive without that other half- but i have just had a friend who's husband died- the mst 'together' couple who didn't need anyone else but each other and their kids- so there are cases where they make a 'unit' together and to separate that is cruel- having a hard time getting my head round that so forgive my ramblings
Ambrose i don't know, if you find out tell me will you? i have been married once in my life and that was at the age of 19, was married for ten years, lived with another guy ten years then another guy for 6.5 years and the last for 1.6 years and now here i am wondering the same thing, how long before you know it is right? will look for more answers, good thread by the way J,
Ambrose i don't know, if you find out tell me will you? i have been married once in my life and that was at the age of 19, was married for ten years, lived with another guy ten years then another guy for 6.5 years and the last for 1.6 years and now here i am wondering the same thing, how long before you know it is right? will look for more answers, good thread by the way J,
Ambrose2007: Wow, Ginger, maybe it's the cheap beer, but I'm awfully confused. You posted something about this guy whom you knew was marriage material in the first five minutes, and then *seemed* to say that you divorced him...? What am I missing here (I'm in Canada, by the way, which is probably impairing my usual mental acuity...pretty commonplace up here in my observation:-).
Jeff
Well originally you asked how long until a person knew. I knew in about 5 mins. He proposed about an hour later.
To all intents and purposes he was marriage material.
He loved marriage.
It just ended up that he had a few bad habits that developed later on, that he wasn't willing to acknowledge, never mind change or comromise on, so I divorced him after 13 years.
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