Did i??. No i think i assumed that starting a thread like this might lead to arguements between some Irish and English here...not necessarily in a bad way....more of a ribbing way.
I dont believe i assumed that you yourself hated them.
Only differing accents Pedro. As for the whole Irish/British thing ..there will always be those who hold onto the past....most will and have moved on. Those who have moved on are those ill give my energy to.
Saying that ive been to Belfast alot Did the falls/shankhill tour.
My heart is Irish...but it doesnt have room for hate of the British.
I didnt mean to embarrass you. I just remembered your last thread.
Ive had experiences where an ex wouldnt leave me be either...the last guy i dated was the same.
I gave him the benefit of the doubt....he behaved same way again...so then i blocked him....and once i made the decision...alot of the stress of it eased.
Hope that helps...just go with what you know about him...and about how you feel.
Is this the same guy you told us about a few months back. Only asking as i dont remember what the conclusion had been at that time.
It depends Heaven on how long you know him...has he been in your life for a very long time. Its all depends on how he acted when in your own relationship. If you felt loved by him and ye were great together etc. I rememebr at the time you said you and him had not made the effort to put the time into the relationship and he strayed.
I dont think you would be asking us advice if this man wasnt someone you were seriously considering taking back..
It depends on your history. If this behaviour and him having gone off and moves in with someone else after you both broke up is new behaviour...to what was normally a great man, then a meet and a conversation would be something i would consider.
If he isnt a decent person then i would simply block him...get rid of any reason he would have to call to u unannounced..like belongings..and then just concentrate on work friends until the feelings pass over
Could do with having our Canadian friends lending us a snow plough or two.
I know...its gas..sometimes we r reluctant to leave the house when its fine outside...then when that choice is taken away from you, you think of 101 things ' youd love to do rgt now if it wasnt for that blasted snow'.
RE: What's the difference between the Irish and the English
Did i??.No i think i assumed that starting a thread like this might lead to arguements between some Irish and English here...not necessarily in a bad way....more of a ribbing way.
I dont believe i assumed that you yourself hated them.