Yeah when I was a kid I wanted to be normal whatever that is? As an adult I tried to make it happen and it never quite did me and life being normal. Now I am mature and realize that normal is subjective and I don't care if I am normal anymore lol.
You can only be who you are period. Even if you try to change your ways to make that person or anyone else like you. You will revert to who you are at the core. I did the same thing when I was about your age. I wanted to be liked so I tried being a bit wild in the end which was a good thing we broke up and the core of who I was resurfaced if that makes sense. Just be yourself. What a beautiful woman you are let someone love you for you and just be friends with the guy for now. Don't play his or anyone's games either he is going to be interested in you are you are now or not. Even if you got him being the "party girl" in the long run you would tire of that and him too. Just my opinion of course.
good night all this is an area I have struggled with my whole life. Not the weight until the last ten years. Read my poem I bumped it back up there. It's not long but it's how I feel. All of these threads are our opinions very subjective at that.
I beg to differ with you. We know whether we are attractive or not and as a woman gets older she figures out the confidence goes a long ways to making her like that. It's how she carries herself more than what she weighs.
There are some really narcissistic people out there men and women and I have spent most of my life not liking what I look like, I am not physically beautiful but I have had men that liked me and I do think I have some good physical attributes. However for the most part beauty is in the eye of the beholder if you don't believe me look at those who have their pics rated unless they are classically beautiful they will have some good rating and some not great. Beauty comes in all races and it does truly come from within you can be all buff on the outside but if you have an ugly soul and can't find beauty in others you miss the point.
Yeah some of us are overweight. You sure seem focused on that. What's great about American is there are a lot of different types of women and a lot of us are white, black, latino and mixed. So go find a thin girl and leave us fatties out of it okay. By the time a woman hits my age a lot of times she has some extra weight on her that's life. JLo is beautiful and so are a lot of the celebrities. Most women even black women don't look like celebrities. Looks fade for anyone and then you are stuck with whose there. There are a lot of women on this site who are not fat either. You seem like you are looking for a model type mister and there are a lot of women out there dying to be skinny enough for you. That's not great either. I may be a bit chubby but I wait tables and can run circles around most people.
I don't know but he's there so say hi to him. He wanted me to argue with people but I only argue with him most of the time lol. So flower him with luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuv that will teach him.
RE: Mouse is back or never left
Again Kitty or maybe he is the descendant of the former scary mouse. Yikes probably knows you will feed him well.