Okay....I believe in multiple soul mates....meaning that there is no "one" soulmate....only in a very rare circumstance depending on your soul's specific journey and your partners soul...but that is a complicated paranormal subject that should get it's own thread some other time.
I strongly feel that timing is everything....in the sense of where your level of happiness and love for yourself is. If you don't respect and love yourself, then how are you gonna respect and love your partner if you decide to grasp on to a picture of how your partner should be and how your partner should do the things in order to make you happy. Expectations is what really ruins a lot of relationships....I feel that if you are looking for a saviour to bring you happiness and save you.....then you are setting up the relationship for failure. Happiness should come from within....you should not depend all of your happiness on your partner....cause that would be unreasonable to put those kinds of expectations on your partner. This would help you not take certain things personal when your partner does something that does not make you happy...it's about understanding and sharing your happiness with your partner.
True, your partner should compliment you and help you see things differently so you can evolve....and the same can be said about you. Helping each other evolve together and with yourselves as a person.
If you have a strong need for somebody to make your life happy, then I would advise to stop watching too many hollywood crap movies and shows....
I would agree only to the physiological aspects of that....our bodies do have needs. Other than that, if you are squeezing needs from your partner, you are only squeezing your happiness. There is the need for security, but that is built upon fear. You should feel secure in yourself and with your love for life. If you don't, and go looking for that in somebody else to give it to you.....ultimately it will only lead to stormy weather after the morning and day has faded(in the beginning of a relationship when everything goes right and feels right)...
Very nice indeed Zarah.....wold you be my strength when I was weak? my voice when I couldn't speak? my eyes when I couldn't see? would you see the best there was in me? lift me up when I couldn't reach? give me faith cause you believe?....jk...please don't answer....
Okay, I will use my next post to offer some insight as to my beliefs pertaining to the content in this thread....it got a bit interesting....
Actually I wasn't really wandering what you were going to say...but I am wondering about your pic? Why include the kid? Do you bring your kid to nightclubs?
just found it, and I just did get a clever mail from some beautiful girl telling me to give her my cell number so she can ring it....and help me find it....I would have if my phone were still missing....I was flattered nevertheless or did I read her gesture wrong? In any case, I need more coffee.
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RE: Why is so difficult to find the right one?
I would add "love thyself and life" to compliment that. If you can't love thyself, then it is kinda hard to love others unconditionally....