Xtabentun Forum Posts (1,722)

Web cam fun.....what the heck???

Come on.....not that funny when it keeps popping up
Wrong selection of words....

Web cam fun.....what the heck???

Is it just me or people are plain mad???
I am getting tired of receiving this kind of IMs......and you close the windows and it keeps opening!
But, i mean, yould you really think this could be a good start ...even with the tempting 14''?
Or maybe they are on the wrong website....How do I block them ?

This is from few min ago.....am I missing a big chance here ???

Him- do u like web cam fun
Him- hi
Him - do u like to see me on cam
Xtabentun: wow...even before hi ...that was quick
Him- 14''
Xtabentun: neh, thank you
Him- do u have msn
Xtabentun: sure
-Him whats your msn
Xtabentun: no chance buddy, not interested
*** X's IC window is closed

And this guy is soon to be my neighbour in Canada.....

RE: When do we learn ?

I know what you mean, I am quite the same lately....but i am working on changing and trying....i don't want to loose the chance by not knowing.....many times we're terrified when starting a relationship but allow yourself to enjoy it and get to know the person next to you with acceptance.
Open and you will receive!

RE: When do we learn ?

Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!

Life's choices...

How can life sometimes hit some so hard, one almost can’t recover?
What are the bases of the decisions …who gets the good staff and who gets the bad?
A very good friend of mine, 47 now, is taking care of her 82 yo mother, immobilized in bed for the past 10 years…..she gave up on so many things, including a personal life and a chance of a relationship, to make sure her mom is well cared for …and she is really genuine in her love.

Last week, out of the blue, we took her to the hospital; she got admitted into the ER with kidney failure, respiratory insufficiency, and plenty of other symptoms that would scare one just mentioning them.

Couple of her close friends were with her and witnessed her slipping away under our own eyes….peritoneal dialysis, hemodialysis, slowly loosing her ….
It makes you sad, it fills you with rage and helplessness…..you want to hold on and refuse to say good bye….

Her only other family is another sister that leaves away and has no intention of planning solutions for the “what if” situation.

It’s just not fair….couple of days ago I saw her before leaving for Romania….and I refuse to think it might be the last time I saw her…..I just don’t want to let go…but it’s not up to me, or any of my friends for that matter.

RE: Marriages

Hahaha..that was a good one!

RE: I'm ashamed to admit this, but...

So this is who he is...i was wondering! Never watch it, but i do pass through when switching the channels; i just can't stand all that drama
It's not international demographics sweety, it's a personal selection.....the program is featured internationally too!

RE: Would you have an International Relationship?

There you go Jan, I couldn't have said it better!

Best website for cheap last min flights

It was just a slight change of plans ;)
Airlines do that sometimes.
Good thing you got home safe!

Best website for cheap last min flights

Yeak, that's a nightmare!
Probably that's why they promote the "travel light" concept!

Best website for cheap last min flights

Qatar? They are supposed to be amongst the best!
What happened?

Best website for cheap last min flights

Thanx, that seem like an interesting site, need to adjust my dates.....won't fly Bucharest so I tried Milano but so far no flights available.....I'll just keep playing with destination and dates and see!

Best website for cheap last min flights

Sometimes is good for short distances, save up quite a lot.
I was once in a flight with Turkish Airlines, we thought the plane will just open up and we'll gonna have to use our wings
Never used Ryan Air but i heard they are terrible too.

Best website for cheap last min flights

They only fly Europe
But thanx, appreciate it!

Best website for cheap last min flights

Anybody knows a really good website for cheap last min. flights?
I am looking for a roundtrip Cancun - Bucharest in the next couple of days and hoping to find someting under 1000 $

Thanks!

RE: HOW TO ACTUALLY MEET PEOPLE!

darn, another great place i need to cross it off my list!

RE: HOW TO ACTUALLY MEET PEOPLE!

Amen to that!
I am 5'9 and love high heels!
Cancun's height average is 5'8 , 5'9( i am talking people living here) ; when going to a club,I am one head above people around me....

Meeting someone that lies about the height would be an instant deal breaker

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

Gracias, have a good night!

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

You cheated!!!

You were supposed to wait until I post it!

Joking..of course you did...2 seconds and you fixed the problem! I should have studied computers!

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

No!!!!! Do i have to go through all that again???
That would be the third traffic jam thread i post....people in here will kill me!
But what the heck....we only have one life anyways.....

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

I just did it...had to post another thread but ...now I know how!
Thank you !!!

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

Gosh, you are so sweet of giving me a hand but i have no ideea of what you just said
Ringhand side?
Just the thought of doing it all again

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

There you go...all that work for nothing!
I still haven't figure out how to post the pics...Darn...and i was so close!
Sorry!

World's worst intersections-traffic jams

Something to shock you into disbelief, and leave you utterly shattered: getting in and out of the "magic mushroom circle" in England
http://lh5.google.ca/abramsv/R9WPEKtLeoI/AAAAAAAALNQ/rDC83SBRP4A/kreisverkehr_10.jpg?imgmax=512
http://lh4.google.ca/abramsv/R9WPD6tLenI/AAAAAAAALNI/rgUqLSc4bP8/kreisverkehr_11.jpg?imgmax=512
http://lh6.google.ca/abramsv/R9WPEatLepI/AAAAAAAALNY/uWKrrxaWSnA/swindon.jpg?imgmax=512
There are three intersections like this in UK: in Swindon, Hemel and in Cardiff.

Boy, am I glad I'm not in this mess right now!

http://lh5.google.ca/abramsv/R9WYOKtLe1I/AAAAAAAALO4/FLefbnOq5rQ/495711679_52f8d76d11_o.jpg?imgmax=512
http://lh4.google.ca/abramsv/R5bBVu9HgVI/AAAAAAAAEuQ/1UR_rpUacD4/LiveLeak-dot-com-83132-i_traffic_jam.jpg?imgmax=512
http://lh5.google.ca/abramsv/R9WEKKtLecI/AAAAAAAALLU/eQdUUWXSeWw/s800/1044.jpg?imgmax=512

And my sweet old Bucharest http://lh6.google.ca/abramsv/R7a5cKoD3DI/AAAAAAAAIlM/Z6UPfyNtUNs/44_picsasdasa.jpg?imgmax=512
Here is the classic traffic jam that terrorized Moscow Sadovoye Koltzo (ring road) in October 2007
http://lh3.google.ca/abramsv/R9WJsqtLegI/AAAAAAAALMQ/3k0b_FN6WiM/DSC_0045.JPG?imgmax=512

RE: Mixed messages:

How about " I would like to get to know you better, what about taking you out sometimes?"

RE: Planes, trains and automobiles.....

I would like to see him comfortable in his environment....probably this will be the face i will get the most, once getting to know him. I don't find attractive the intentional posing; usually men that need a shinny, "eyes taking " object prove they lack other qualityes

RE: Let's say I break into your house

Gracias Manolito!

RE: Let's say I break into your house

One thing that really impressed me..and humbled me also, was how similar we are..in the way we live, the way we think and react, the lessonns we learned from our grandparents( from food recipes, to beauty secrets and life advices)....even the customs and beliefs.
It's like learning a new language.....once you do, many other foreign words just make sense because you have a database to relate them with.
It takes time and willingness to see these details, but once you get to note them, you fit right in and the whole world is your kingdom.

RE: How many of you can deal with a new relationship ?

Thank you, feeling is mutual!

RE: How many of you can deal with a new relationship ?

Amen Ginger...right to the core as usual!
I think CS is a support group, even when we don't realize we need one! And a big thank you to all that contribute to that!