just wanted to tell Natzz that she is in right place to get what she is looking for, but you already did
this "visit back and forth" thing is great... if both sides are not too nosy and don't care much how the excessive "space" is handled in between "visits back and forth"
Pat, from what I know about you - "Yes", and I stick to it
And believe me, I know what I am saying, I raised my child alone not because it was a big deal to find another husband; but I was not lucky to find a father-figure for my child.
Babies: it's very unlikely parents know anything about where their child is going. So it's still wrong. But it could be justified by the fact that a majority of these babies won't starve. At least.
RE: too personal
Excellent point.As for me, as unpleasant and sad as it is, I don't mind seeing ppl being themselves.
The art of civilized argument = ability to sustain a decent relationship and vice versa.