....oooppps... NOPE, not gonna work my NUM lock is disabled. I have to use ALT key to get it(expected results).
Damn non-QWERTY
QWERTY keyboards have issues when having to type an accent, so I have a one that slightly modified for allowing easy access to characters with diacritical marks
Very important. But in all honesty - how many of as and how often say what they mean and mean what you say?
On a personal level I learnt to recognize those who don't say what they mean and don't mean what you say very fast and put a good distance between myself and them. It's usually either manipulators or people who live in a fantasy world.
In all other social settings, to me, is good enough if they do what they say and say what they do.
Mary, as you know it takes all kinds to make this world. My advice would be not to focus on any person with whom you just exchanged couple of e-mails and then they suddenly disappeared. You'll never figure out what it was all about, and frankly - it not worth your time and effort trying to 'revive' 2-emails "relationship" You will realize it eventually.
And no, I don't think that he is married - could be anything: a player or someone who e-mails out of boredom to everybody and couldn't have cared less to follow up, etc.
Welcome to CS and good luck to you
...or (as an alternative to assumptions) they might check the 'Forums' tab in her profile and realize that this girl just joined CS, is very new to e-dating, takes every move way too serious and this thread is just what it is - Confused!!
Lush, none of us here know the details (not that we should) and even though you got wise advice and honest opinions from many people here, it's all general statements and only you (well, and two others know how to apply it to this situation).
The fact that a private drama became a public one was not your wrong doing and knowing you as a straight forward, honest and classy person I do believe it could've and should've been addressed and resolved in private. At least an attempt should've been made.
One of the other 2 people involved is also a decent and honest person (don't know the 3rd one) and (again not knowing what what happened) it's hard for me to understand how and why it escalated to harsh public accusations.
if it ALL boils down to just talking, flirting with a "taken" man (and I have no reason to doubt your words),
in general... it's a dating site, that's why we are here. You have NO obligations to any one of man's potential, prospective, current, real or imaginary attachments - if he is attached, it's HIS obligation to be true and faithful to his girlfriend or fiance, NOT yours.
As for life lessons, you've heard enough from others. Besides, you yourself can teach ppl a lesson or two. I hope you already feel better about all this.
RE: how many womens hide age
there is!!!!