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mary339colorado springs, Colorado USA2 Threads 9 PostsWhat does it mean when someone emails you that he is intrested and you email him back sayiny the same! But, then he appears online the next day and you are waiting anxiouly for him to reply because you want to know more about him and he has not answered. I am thinking his married!
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Could be he's just writing to a number of woman.
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mary339: What does it mean when someone emails you that he is intrested and you email him back sayiny the same! But, then he appears online the next day and you are waiting anxiouly for him to reply because you want to know more about him and he has not answered. I am thinking his married!
Can we all say....PLAYER???
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yeah that is what I thought Also!
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I have gotten a few of those myself, so I figure he found a better one, some I guess are writing to many. 
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mylifewithu: I have gotten a few of those myself, so I figure he found a better one, some I guess are writing to many.
It sucks though I hate it when that happens! Just dont waist your time then even emailing!!
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mary339: It sucks though I hate it when that happens! Just dont waist your time then even emailing!!
I had one that wrote several times , then POOOff , Oh well. I just think he weeded his worthless self out for me.
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mary339: What does it mean when someone emails you that he is intrested and you email him back sayiny the same! But, then he appears online the next day and you are waiting anxiouly for him to reply because you want to know more about him and he has not answered. I am thinking his married!
Give it a little time. He has a social life and you can't expect him to drop everything and give his undivided attention to you right off the bat. If you crowd him he will bolt. Take the time to become friends and if things develope your friendship may grow into something more but if you start tightening the reigns too soon you'll be sending the signal that you're too controlling.
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mary339: yeah that is what I thought Also!
Often happen to me as well! But if you loose interest, for whatever reasons, you don't wanna hurt the person and rather ignore her than having a big discussion. I have done this myself a few times, but I know it's not right. Coz the person could be serious, but I had my doubts.
I have done this in the beginning (saying sorry, your nice but not what I am looking for), but than I got blamed and some even sweared at me and giving me all kinds of names, so I decided to take the easy way out.
My advice: write him 1 or 2 emails and if you still get no answer in 2 weeks, delete his contact!
... and kepp on searching
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mary339: What does it mean when someone emails you that he is intrested and you email him back sayiny the same! But, then he appears online the next day and you are waiting anxiouly for him to reply because you want to know more about him and he has not answered. I am thinking his married!
Hey hun, in all honesty, if you keep checking in on someone that you have only had one correspondance with, then start a thread about it, Seems as though you may be REALLY hard up for attention and/or are the stalker type. Not saying that you are, But people will preceive this thread as such( they will think, damn if she's checking on me(generally speaking) already, how will she act when we are dating....
That is what went through my head, as I read your thread title...
So if you aren't like that at all, I'd be weary of people trying to take advantage of you... Because you seem very insecure... No offense intended
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Tater: Hey hun, in all honesty, if you keep checking in on someone that you have only had one correspondance with, then start a thread about it, Seems as though you may be REALLY hard up for attention and/or are the stalker type. Not saying that you are, But people will preceive this thread as such( they will think, damn if she's checking on me(generally speaking) already, how will she act when we are dating.... That is what went through my head, as I read your thread title...
So if you aren't like that at all, I'd be weary of people trying to take advantage of you... Because you seem very insecure... No offense intended
So if you aren't like that at all, I'd be weary of people trying to take advantage of you... Because you seem very insecure... No offense intended
I didnt mean it to be perceived as such. And no offense taken
As in looking for attention maybe I was at the time. I have just been so out of the dating scene its rather difficult to not sound stalkish type Thanks for your advice!!
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mylifewithu: I had one that wrote several times , then POOOff , Oh well.
I just think he weeded his worthless self out for me.
I just think he weeded his worthless self out for me.
I've just been blaming it on alien abductions.
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mary339: What does it mean when someone emails you that he is intrested and you email him back sayiny the same! But, then he appears online the next day and you are waiting anxiouly for him to reply because you want to know more about him and he has not answered. I am thinking his married!
Short Attention Span .......... That's All
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lanabyte: I've just been blaming it on alien abductions.
I never thought of that one, Omg poor poor men. Well maybe one day Gilly will find them on a spaceship and bring them home. 
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mylifewithu: I have gotten a few of those myself, so I figure he found a better one, some I guess are writing to many.
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ooby_dooby: Give it a little time. He has a social life and you can't expect him to drop everything and give his undivided attention to you right off the bat. If you crowd him he will bolt. Take the time to become friends and if things develope your friendship may grow into something more but if you start tightening the reigns too soon you'll be sending the signal that you're too controlling.
I had no idea that men were such nervous shy creatures, will have to take it real easy in future!!!!!!
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Tater: Hey hun, in all honesty, if you keep checking in on someone that you have only had one correspondance with, then start a thread about it, Seems as though you may be REALLY hard up for attention and/or are the stalker type. Not saying that you are, But people will preceive this thread as such( they will think, damn if she's checking on me(generally speaking) already, how will she act when we are dating.... That is what went through my head, as I read your thread title...
So if you aren't like that at all, I'd be weary of people trying to take advantage of you... Because you seem very insecure... No offense intended
So if you aren't like that at all, I'd be weary of people trying to take advantage of you... Because you seem very insecure... No offense intended
common courtesy is not stalking, saying hello takes a second, and yes it can be confusing that we are actually on this site to meet new people , and as for the thread, it possibly helps to make us feel a little more supported to find out that there are others experiencing the same/
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mary339: What does it mean when someone emails you that he is intrested and you email him back sayiny the same! But, then he appears online the next day and you are waiting anxiouly for him to reply because you want to know more about him and he has not answered. I am thinking his married!
I have no idea what it means...
But here, is different, there are so many more other areas than 'looking for a mate'
There are forums, that are interesting to read, there are friendships that develop along with enemies, there is always something to read here.
YOu should stop worrying, he may well be married, he may well be what he says he is, who knows? Only you will when the time comes.
There are many to get involved here with, he may well be speaking with others, it is down to him, you need to think about you and what you want, not worrying about what he is doing...
Give him the benefit of the doubt, let him answer your questions, but do not attack him and accuse.
If he is seriously interested then it will progress, if not then you will move on. Don't forget you have never met him, you are not emotionally attached to him, until you have spent time with him, be that face to face or talking...
I have been there, I have not had the same doubts you have, but I have had my doubts about people.
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mylifewithu: I have gotten a few of those myself, so I figure he found a better one, some I guess are writing to many.
Well when you think about how many people are out there that just don't even look at your e-mail it makes sense. I think for every 10 I send out I may get one or two back. I don't break any hearts or just stop ignoring them if I find one that becomes special to me, I let them know that friendship is all that will happen for now. I'm not saying woman have it easier, but they tend to get a lot more of the first contacts than us guys do.
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