RE: are u a jealous person?

Did you know that feelings of jealousy are based on deeper fears such as the fear of being rejected, fear of being made to look and feel like a fool, fear of being unloved, fear of being abandoned and so on?

Meeting relationship needs

Dream, Dream, Dream and then take action please.
Dream, Dream, Dream and then ask for Guidance.
Dream, Dream, Dream and then think the thoughts that are aligned with your dream.
Dream, Dream, Dream and then visualize your Dream as if it is true Now.
Dream, Dream, Dream and then recall God and the Universe in your life.
Dream, Dream, Dream and then let go of the unwanted expectations you and others have of you.
Dream, Dream, Dream and Dream because it is your Dream.

Dreams are playful and exciting. Let yourself be that which you are dreaming about.

Let yourself be that playful, joyful child within loving each moment of the game played.

Let yourself be that wisdom within that creates the possibilities to your Dreams.

Let yourself be open and receptive to your prayers.

Let yourself be one with your Dream.

Let yourself be your Dream and live with passion of your Dream as you.

Let it be done and you shall Dream Dreams of goodness and be the goodness in your dreams.

Be good to yourself and allow goodness to come to you. For you are so worthy and deserving of a life of Dreams manifested as Truth.

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Meeting relationship needs

Okay make your own dream woman or man in your head. What do they look like, what do act like, how do they treat you?

She looks just like Heather Locklear, has a good job and makes her own money. She considers me the only man in her life. She is faithful.

RE: Should women do the chasing?

That’s a nice thought…

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RE: LOVE.......

First, perfection is an illusion. It doesn't exist. Why? Because no matter how good you are you can always improve. Always. Even when you don't think you can improve anything. For an example, even if a baseball player belts a homerun, he could still hit the ball further... Even if you make a million dollars a month, you could increase that to 2 million month.

Instead of thinking of perfection as a destination... think of perfection as a direction... it's an ideal. A guide.

RE: LOVE.......

According to me dating in itself is some kind of true love game. A game generally involves a person loosing or winning. In a true love game, the same can happen. You can either win by finding your one and only love or loose by not finding him or her. Just like any other game, true love game has got its own rules and regulations. You are looking for that perfect compatible person for you and there is no settling for less. After all you want the best for you and nothing short of the best.

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Deep thoughts

If a lady hits a guy in anger should the guy be allowed to hit her back? and do you think women hit guys knowing most were tought not to hit back?

1. A man should never hit a woman.

2. A man should never stand by and ALLOW himself to be hit by a woman (or anyone else, for that matter).

3. A man should put distance between himself and aggressive women...

...or suffer the consequences.

RE: Should women do the chasing?

There are a number of things that should be illegal for women to do when it comes to men. Number 1 should be chasing after a man.

Never do that. Ever. Ever, Ever, Ever!

If a man starts to show interest, play it cool and let him come to you. He must be hot on fire for more than having a purely physical experience, he should be burning up for you.

Furthermore, he should be the first to tell you how much he wants you, wants to get to know you, the things that he loves and desires in you and how you make him feel. This is only when you can put your guard down and actually tell him how you are feeling, if it is the same.

Men love to chase, they are not made to be chased. Chasing a man will put out his burners for you.

The hardest thing to do is to see a man that you truly desire and leave him the heck alone. You may feel like you are going mad and may need to be committed because you are in lust with him.

You cannot actually develop an emotional connection unless you begin to communicate and exchange energy with him. So don't go there. It's not actually being "in love."

Make a man come after you by pulling and pushing. Pull him in when he shows interest then push him back a bit so that his interest can continue to grow.

It's not a game, it's called smart dating.

RE: why we are dissapointed?

In my case, I do agree that what does not kill me makes me stronger. My life experiences have taught me valuable lessons and made me who I am today. Knowledge is power and strength, right?:

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RE: why we are dissapointed?

An event we all run away from yet, we ply the path it is conversant with without been sensitive enough to know that we are in its territory. Why do we have to risk ourselves? This is what we do everyday without knowing. Am yet to have an answer to, why we walk on a path we know is harmful. Who is to blame? When we fall victim of this unwanted visitor? Alot have fallen into its trap unknowingly,is their experience not worth learning from that others coming behind still fall victims

Disappointment is often accompanied by hurt and the resultant effect is hatred. When we are disappointed, we feel bad about ourselves and about people who have disappointed us. Everyone at one point in time have been disappointed and this made us went through terrible psychological warfare; trying to put things back in order but, doing this is never an easy task. We ask ourselves, why did I trust him/her in the first place? People have their own issues to attend to hence, they forget about others.

RE: how much money you need to be happy?

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RE: how much money you need to be happy?

Can riches buy happiness? Wealth can buy many luxuries, but not happiness. Money cannot buy contentment. Money can surely buy us time with a psychiatrist with who we can talk about our unhappiness, but no amount of money can buy us happiness. Sometimes more money, and status can rob us of happiness. Think of many very rich people. They cannot move around like ordinary citizens. They will be immediately stared at. They have lost a lot of freedom in quest of money and fame.

What gets us happiness? We get happiness by doing what we like. We don't get happiness by forcing us to do what we don't want to do. Our happiness comes from our satisfaction of doing our heart felt desires. Our contentment comes from that. Money can destroy friendships, and break family relations. The more money you have, the more people expect from you. If you refuse, your relationship goes downhill. Sometimes I wonder if we have more than our minimum requirement of money, will we be happy at all?

If you have a giving nature, money can buy you happiness of a different kind. When you visit an orphanage, and are able to donate as much as they want to feed the small kids, you will feel a sense of genuine happiness. Money can make you do good things in life that make others happy. When you make others happy, you become happy.

Money can help you do that. No expensive dinner can make you feel as happy as the smile on the face of parents to whom you have given money for their children's medicine.

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RE: are you satisfied with connecting singles?

How very true. And I agree with you...jumike

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Santa Claus

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Christmas

Where is the one place in the world you would love to spend Christmas but due to lack of funding or family commitments cannot?

I'd really like to spend Christmas somewhere where it really mean something to the people, where it's traditional, you sing the carols, it's snowing, it's all a-glow with lanterns and good cheer, and where everyone is happy to be together - Norway, or Sweden, Iceland, one of the Arctic countries would be ideal! Instead of just scoffing down a tasteless turkey, drinking too much sherry and falling asleep in front of yet another rerun of the Willie Wonker!

dunno

Santa Claus

COUNTRY SANTA NAMES
United States of America, Canada ¤?? Santa Claus
Brazil ¤ Shengdan Laoren
Chile ¤ Viejo Pascuero
Dutch ¤ Sinter Klaas
England ¤ Father Christmas
Europe ¤ Saint Nicholas
Finland ¤ Joulupukki
France ¤ Pere Noel
Germany ¤ Saint Nikolaus
Hawaii ¤ Kanakaloka
Holland ¤ De Kerstman
Hungary ¤ Tel-apo/Mikulas/ Winter grandfather
India ¤ Santa Claus, Baba
Italy ¤ Babbo Natale
Japan ¤ Hoteiosho
Lithuania ¤ Kaledu Senelis
Morocco ¤ Black Peter
Netherlands ¤ Kerstman
Norway ¤ Julenissen
Peru ¤ Papa Noel
Poland ¤ Swiety Mikolaj
Russia ¤ Ded Moroz
Scandinavia ¤ Julenisse
Spain ¤ El Nino Jesus
Sweden ¤ Tomten/Jultomten

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Santa Claus

Do you remember how old you were when you found out Santa wasn't real?


How many other names is Santa Claus known as?

RE: Say Something Good!!!!

"I will be a positive force while still on this earth."

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Meeting relationship needs

Hello Claayer...wave hug

Meeting relationship needs

Have you ever felt like there was not someone for you out in the world?

Never. I have a strong believe that there is someone out there for EVERYONE.

Love in relationships

Who has been your greatest source of unconditional love?


for me my parents

What women like

Ladies - What is most attractive on a man's face: Clean Shaven, Stubble or goatie?

What women like

when is your..wedding

What women like

Roses or chocolates? which would you prefer?

What men like

If diamonds are a girl's best friend, what is a guy's best friend?

Apparently his dog is his best friend.

What men like

Hi John, nice to know that... they look fantastic when they get dirty...

What men like

Guys: Would a girl all dolled up with high heels on, or a girl with her hair up in a messy ponytail and tennis shoes catch your eye first?


I have to be honest probably the girl all dolled up would catch my eye way before the girl in tennis shoes and a messy ponytail.

That however doesn't mean I couldn't see the girl with the messy pony tail as a beautiful person in time if I took the time to get to know her.

Love in relationships

If you fell in love with someone who was allergic to your pet(s), would you get rid of your pet(s)?

Me..Not a chance. Allergies can be dealt with. If we really wanted to be together, we'd find a solution. Giving up my dog for love would be emotionally devastating to me.

RE: What type of social skills do you look for in a partner

1. You are inspired to make your partner feel safe, loved and cared for.

2. You feel safe to share your thoughts and feelings.

3. You ask and genuinely want to know what your partner is thinking and feeling.

4. You feel heard and understood by your partner.

5. You enjoy doing things for and with each other.

6. You love to give little gifts and see your partner smile.

7. You appreciate and honor your partner by always being a team player.

8. You treat your partner gently and with respect during discussions.

9. You value and trust your partner's opinion and make decisions together.

10. You speak on the phone during the day and check in at the end of the day to learn what happened in your partner's world.

11. You think positively about your partner, giving him or her the benefit of the doubt.

12. When you come home at the end of a long day, your soul is at peace, and you look forward to spending time with your friend.

I hope you and your partner

Gain the Awareness, Learn the Skills and

Practice the Techniques so you are successful on your

Journey from "I-TO-WE" to live your lives as each other's

Best Friends During the Day,

Lovers at Night, and

Partners for Life

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RE: What are the 7 most import personality traits you look for in a partner

1. Kindness

2. Consideration

3. Compassion

4. Gratitude/Appreciation

5. Generosity/Graciousness

6. Honesty (Openness/Intimacy/etc.)

7. Cooperation (Willingness/Flexibility/Team Work)

8. Respect (Respect your partner's person, beliefs, past, path, and property)

9. Passion/Desire

10. Expressiveness (Expressions of Love/Compliments/Support/Encouragement)

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