Did you know, people are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)?? Its true!
Everyday parents tell their kids to QUIT BEING SELFISH!
From a young age you are taught that being selfish is a bad thing.
Yet, if you are anything like me, you realize the importance of being selfish. If you are not selfish you can not get anything done. If you are unselfish you do not make time for yourself. When you become completely selfless you are very unhappy.
Hello claudya,just stopping by to say hi and here is something for you "Love Quotes" To Honor Mom on Mother's Day...."Is my mother my friend? I would have to say, first of all she is my Mother, with a capital 'M'; she's something sacred to me. I love her dearly... yes, she is also a good friend, someone I can talk openly with if I want to.
1) Quick decisions are unsafe decisions. -Sophocles
2) The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you cannot accept regret. -Henri Frederic Amiel
3) When, against one’s will, one is high pressured into making a hurried decision, the best answer is always No, because No is more easily changed to Yes, than Yes is changed to No. -Charles E. Nielson
4) Nothing can be more destructive to vigor of action than protracted, anxious fluctuation, through resolutions adopted, rejected, resumed, and suspended, and nothing causes a greater expense of feeling. A man without decision can never be said to belong to himself; he is as a wave of the sea, or a feather in the air which every breeze blows about as it listeth. -John Foster
5) The percentage of mistakes in quick decisions is no greater than in long-drawn-out vacillations, and the effect of decisiveness itself makes things go and creates confidence. -Anne O’Hare McCormick
6) I have to be wrong a certain number of times in order to be right a certain number of times. However, in order to be either, I must first make a decision. -Frank N. Giampietro
7) Decision is a sharp knife that cuts clean and straight; indecision, a dull one that hacks and tears and leaves ragged edges behind it. -Gordon Graham
8) I hate to see things done by halves. If it be right, do it boldly; if it be wrong leave it undone. -Gilpin
When you are by yourself are you happy? Or are you mad, sad, bereaved?
How you are by yourself is how you really are in your heart.
A thorough investigation of your heart will reveal what's there.
Just like they say that character is defined by what a person does when they think no one is looking.
What kind of character do you have?
I think it's special to be able to sit there in a nice comfortable room or even on the bus and close your eyes and go back through memories of times that made your laugh and smile or just made you feel good.
Sometimes we just need to ignore the negative thoughts realizing that past is past and we can choose what we think about.
As a man thinks in his heart, so is he. It's so true. realizing this, what are you going to do?
So what we do to purge the negative thoughts is to not keep reliving them, it's to think mostly on the things that make you feel good, then when you think you're ready remember some of the bad times and try to find the parts that made you grow, the parts that made you a better person.
These negative thoughts are there to serve us as teachers, no matter how small the lesson, there's a lesson and if we will honestly look we'll see it, you'll see.
Our positive thoughts should take up most of our thought life, after all it's your thought life, and it controls how happy you are on a daily basis, if you want to be a happy person, you're going to have to choose to think on good things. Makes sense, don't it?
Take action: Think on good things, think about things in a positive light as they happen, if something bad happens, think about the lesson in the situation. Think about the solutions, not the problems. Get excited about turning something perceived as negative into a positive thing.
Make the most out of what you have and you'll find that what you have is the most you can.
Go out in the world today and have fun, look at life like through the eyes of a little school girl/boy. Or through the eyes of a cheery grandparent. Notice those people that are always so happy inside, not just a show, the ones that you can tell my seeing the light within them shine.
we are not things. But it's so easy to use such labels to describe ourselves or define others. We say them so effortlessly and often we come to think of ourselves and others purely in one-dimensional terms. "Oh, he's my CPA" or "she's a nurse." Even such descriptions as "I'm a Christian" or "I'm a Democrat or Republican" are seriously self-limiting. And think about those people we tend to label with negatives such as "he's a jerk," or "she's a b_____." Besides the obvious conflict and misunderstanding such labels generate, the danger in using such superficial labels is that we begin to see others as concepts or things and treat them as such. We are not our jobs, our roles, our positions in society, our bank balances, or any of a thousand other possible partial descriptors. We are human beings not human doings and we need to be constantly reminded to see ourselves and others in much larger, more generous terms.
If he’s in his 30’s and still living with his mother, run! The thing is, mommas’ boys have been waited on hand and foot by their dear old mothers all their lives, so they don’t always know how to do even the most basic of chores. Nor can they usually think on their own. If you were to make the horrendous mistake of moving in with a momma’s boy, expect to do his cooking and cleaning, expect to be compared to his mother and expect her to be around all the time. In short, expect a living hell.
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What do you think of premarital cohabitation?