I would throw them both out of the house, then throw their clothes out the door after them. Next, I would strip the bed and burn the sheets and any bathroom linens they may have used. Then I would get busy and scour the bathroom with bleach, disinfect the entire house, have a locksmith come change all the locks, and finally I would have the local thrift shop come and pick up all my ex-partner's belongings. If she wants them back she can go buy them back from the thrift store. I would erase the cheater out of my life as much as can be done, never contact her or receive contact from her again and move on with my life as if she never existed in the first place. Cheating is the ultimate "deal-breaker." Nothing spells out "it's over and I totally disrespect you as a partner and a human being" quite like your partner choosing to be with someone else and in your own home/bed ~ ugh!! Good riddance
Falling in love" is a mainly Western term used to describe the process of moving from a feeling of neutrality towards someone to one of love. The usage of the term "fall" implies many things: that the process may have been in some way inevitable or uncontrollable, risky or putting the lover in a state of vulnerability, that the process is irreversible, or all of these things. The term is generally used to describe an (eventual) love that is strong, although not necessarily permanent.
There are some events which could wipe us out. I do believe in the potentially catastrophic effects of global warming, but I doubt that humanity would go extinct because of it. We're pretty smart and very adaptable. And we can be pretty tough when it comes to survival.
Nuclear holocaust and subsequent nuclear winter could possibly do it. A large enough impact could definitely do it. A near pass of a star could do it by throwing the earth away from the sun. This could happen in about 250 million years when the Milky Way collides with Andromeda. But if we dodge all those disasters, all life on earth will come to an end when the sun becomes a red giant. This will be a long and horrible experience for life here, and the outcome is certain. But that won't be for another 4 or 5 billion years.
Some think that long before the Andromeda collision, we will have evolved into an entirely different species. That doesn't have quite the same connotation as going extinct. This is a good subject for debate, too, because I believe we have reached a point where the extensive mixing of the gene pool, along with our partial escape from the pressures of natural selection, (thanks to technology), might slow down or even stop human evolution. Or if we do evolve, it might be in planned, deliberate ways, like through genetic engineering.
In any case, I think there's a 90% chance that our current species will not exist in 250 million years, but our descendant species will.
I know right... if only both had come at different times in my life... I wanna spend the rest of my life wit my gf, but I wish that she had just come along about two years later than she did..
the gift I'd most like to receive at Christmas is to be truly happy, I know that sounds weird, but just to be happy is enough for me, I don't want presents that I am not going to use, want or wear because it is a waste of money for people who don't have the money, I have already bought my watch which is a present from me! I don't ask for much in life because sometimes you can have too much! And you start to take things for granted easily.
A controlling relationship can be very complicated. In most situations, the one controlled doesn't even know or want to admit that they're being suffocated. Many factors come into play here, but we're going to focus on the warning signs of a controlling relationship.
It's normal for couples to argue about things every now and then. But constant threats, like the one above, are warning signs of a controlling relationship. Your partner wants to stop you from doing whatever it is you want.
Trust is essential to make a relationship work. If your partner has to constantly check your mobile phone or email for messages, then I'm afraid you might be in a controlling relationship. The feeling is not at all pleasant. You're not a fugitive who needs to be guarded at all times.
A relationship is supposed to nurture growth. But when the controlling person doesn't even allow you to see your friends, that's one of the warning signs of a controlling relationship.
The controller probably fears the friends who have the good sense to break the control spell. On a side note, friends are also the best remedies for a controlling relationship.
These warning signs of a controlling relationship all have something in common. They throw away your sense of self and allow your partner to decide everything for you.
Sometimes, it's difficult to break away from the habit when you're used to being controlled. However, that doesn't mean you can't get out of a controlling relationship. All you need is your resolve and a steady group of friends to help you take the first step.
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