Does being in love inspire you to want to be a better person?
Love certainly does that for me, I’m much happier, I feel supported in anything I choose to peruse, which then gives me the courage and strength I need to follow it through, I also stop being selfish and realize that my other half has goals etc and other commitments which make me want to do all I can for her and others around me.
If a person dies and you are the heir entitled to some or all of their estate and the institution holding the money does not know how to contact you or that you are the entitled heir the money becomes unclaimed money.
What would you say to a parent that tries to hold your inheritance, over your head?
I'd laugh gently and tell them to stop being silly! I'd tell them that I am not interested in their money, will make my own money and live my life my way. If they think they have any power over me with their money, they are really, really wrong.
What do you after you give everything you've got and you still get rejected? Not just in relationships.
I usually get back at whatever/whoever stopped me in the first place, unless it was my own fault or a lack of talent in my end of things. I usually move on and focus myself on something else worthwhile.
If you fell in love with the perfect person would you stop doing something that they really hated like smoking?
I think we enter relationships with people and expect them to conform "or pay the price". I wouldn't expect someone to change something to fit my likes or dislikes and although I probably would do it for them I don't think it is healthy to give up something you enjoy simply because someone else doesn't like it. Too much sacrifice breeds resentment.
Do you like it when people flirt with you? Why or why not?
I don't mind if they are single not that I am going to take them seriously but if they are married or in a relationship and do it..it makes me angry because it shows a lack of respect for their partner.
When a man or woman seem hesitant of venturing into it, we see them as rather juvenile. But hesitation is a form of caution. Where pro’s are con’s are weighed and many things are anticipated. It is because one realizes that marriage is a crucial responsibility. A man could be hesitant of getting married in this sense. Rather than a woman pressuring him to be bound to her, she should instead present herself as a capable person. For her to strive in herself to be capable rather than being needy. When a man sees that she is able and capable, then would he think of her as an ideal partner in the tumultuous commitment called marriage.
People are good at reading when someone is being fake. Are you really sorry? If you're going to say sorry to your boyfriend/girlfriend you have to mean it. Really think about what you did or said. Put yourself in his shoes and ask how you would feel if the role were reversed. Put your ego aside and be humble. Yes, apologizing can be a humbling experience. A true, sincere apology is the sign of a mature person.
Men are often tentative on letting a woman meet his family and siblings. If he does bring in the idea of a particular woman to his family, then it’s a good sign. More so if he hasn’t done it before with his previous girlfriends. If a man leaves some of his things at his girlfriend’s place, or when he allows vice versa, there are better probabilities for a more stable relationship It is somewhat of a symbol of his and her worlds meshing. Otherwise, a man would be adamant about keeping his space strictly his space. And then there is of course him foreseeing or envisioning a future with her.
The faith between us is a faith in this world. Hastening the end of time, a key idea to many fundamentalist conceptions of religion, is to hasten the end of all we love. It is to hasten the end of practice. It is to do away with the languages we share, and represents a disastrous end of faith. Religious fundamentalism, like its opposite extreme, a vehemently secularist atheism, understands belief instrumentally and reads sacred texts literally. But, to read the scripture literally is to remove it from the world, to hide its frail, yet boundlessly hopeful humanity behind some perfect, almighty hand of God. Lost are its literary beauty, its wonder, and the more complicated ethical and moral teachings developed over centuries by all religious traditions.
Women are more apt to think of themselves as cinderellas swooning at the thought of their prince charmings. And as if their boyfriends are their knights in shining armour off to their rescue. And thus when he pops the question to and offers her a ring, she pictures both of them on the path to marital bliss. But men and women are often of different polarities. The marital bliss which a woman so fancies may seem to be a dreadful state of confinement for a man. A woman can be left in a quandary. Does her boyfriend think of the conglomeration of him and her and for the long term at that? How can she tell if he is considering the actual “M” word with her? How is it to tell whether he is marriage material? A telltale sign is when a man has introduced his so called girlfriend to his family.
Who wouldn’t cringe at the thought of marriage. Of waking up over and over with the same person every morning. Sharing the same room with them, the same household, the same personal space. And this is not to say merely on the physical sense. Emotionally, mentally and psychologically, you have to get used to the idea that you are with “somebody”. When there is you, there has to be him, or her and you’re basically considered a unit in itself. If a man or a woman has gotten used to the freedom and independence of singleness, marriage can come off to be such an enclosed place???
Bottom line: secret keeping may be flattering and may give rise to a sense of importance. Sometimes it is necessary. But it is a necessary evil, something that should be done very sparingly when there are absolutely no other options. It will produce stress and hurt communication. It is essentially a non productive mode of operating and should be followed by focused efforts to restore communication and shared problem solving. If secret keeping happens to be a prominent part of your management style it is time to review the management style and search for more productive approaches......
Blended families are becoming more commonplace. It is estimated that one in three children are in a blended family situation. When families merge together there is an incredible amount of change and with change comes resistance. Adjusting to two part-time environments can be very difficult for kids.
If you are feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of blending two families together, coaching can help. A coach can provide you with the tools you need to make this a smoother transition for your family.
Blended families come in different shapes and sizes. There are single parents with kids who marry someone with no kids, and there are single parents with kids who marry someone who also has kids. There are situations where a spouse has passed away and the remaining spouse, with children, marries someone with kids - or without.
It is not uncommon for couples to want to start their own family. Adding a new baby to a blended family can create jealousy issues and added stress.
Many families who find themselves in any one of these situations often feel overwhelmed and unsure where to turn to for help. While some families can get through these times of adjustment on their own, others need help to cope and adjust.
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What's your most desired wish?To Me More than anything else, Total peace of mind.