I was wondering when I was going to see you. If women ruled the world it would be the best day of your life, You talk about catfights have you seen two grown men go at it?
Well you guys asked for it, so here it is. Its been said that men have been the main architects of our world. They would like to know what would happen if we women took over some of the jobs they do , like designing planes, roads,power tools etc...what would our world look like? How would we run big businesses, the monetary systems,the government. How would we be as leaders? Also if we switched roles how would men do at some of these roles which have long been deemed as women's roles? Comments please.
P.S. Please no bashing each other I just finished designing these new carpets.
This is what I love most about you Sommer, you are a wise and balanced woman. It was but yesterday that I was a free, single and childless person and I remember how that felt, you were free to do as you like with no dependants. I can well see the other side of the coin for a man who has no kids to now come and take on the huge task of parenthood. Before I was a parent I did not dig kids I really did'nt but since having my daughter I have blossomed into the role.
So it is possible for someone to grow into the role of parent over time. It takes a very special type of individual who has no kids to take up the mantle of being a father to a child that is not biologically his. But a man should no feel bad if he finds the task too much - believe me it is a lot of work. But I relish my role as a mother and would not change it for the world. I have no less respect for the man that admits that for whatever reason he cannot fill this role(at least he is honest)any more than I respect the man who feels he is up to the challenge. It just takes being honest with each other and with themselves. Each person must do what is right for them.
Thats why I like to get all the cards on the table. Both of us have options. I think it depends on how far this relationship is going to go. In the beginning the man knows upfront that I am a woman that comes WITH a child. If he decides to stick around then fine. If he decides to stick around AND we move to the next level of the relationship as in he becomes a boyfriend he will have to accept that yes there will be times when my time will be divided between him and my child. I'm not going to force my child onto you - my child is my responsibility. But you can never know if you and the child will get along unless you interact with said child.
It would be distressing to me if for some reason they do not get along with my child but the relationship can still go but at the back of my mind I will always wonder what would happen if we were married and therein lies my concerns, since I would find it way too stressful to be continually having to ease the tension between two people(the man and the child)who just do not click. It just does not make for harmony.
In some cases a kind of co-existence might be reached but if not then it won't work. I love men I really do and I am not forcing anyone by saying love me love my kids. I have a very young child that is impressionable and at a sensitive age and I have to be aware of who I let in. My child is not going anywhere and is my first priority as children do not ask to be here. If the man cannot handle the situation he has the option to go.
I don't like to waste time. If for whatever reason a man becomes uninteresed in me because he finds out I have a child, well I won't stick around. The last thing I want is some man feeling resentful that I am pushing my responsibilties onto him. If he feels he is up to it then fine, if not that's also fine since kids aren't like dollys you can put away in the cupboard till you need them. Men come and go but with kids once they are here they are here to stay.
How can you say that? Look at all those times I sat lovingly listenting to you talk about the feminists and protected you from incoming. I even let you get the last word(and that is hard for a womam)
A lot of the people that have contacted me with no pics have turned out to be scammers,not all but a good majority. This has made me a little wary. Because of this I find myself more cautious of people without pics than I would be if they had one.
tainogirl Forum Posts (3,777)
Yeah right! I saw how you laughed at my saintliness.
IF WOMEN RULED THE WORLD
We women don't need our fists to settle scores with you men, we know how weak you guys get when we get you into the lovecave.