I don't think so. I think you want people to provide you with answers to things that you need to be looking for yourself. You've said it yourself. You've heard most of the arguments and they have failed to convince you. So what's the point of seeking further knowledge and wasting time? You either believe something or you don't. If you already don't believe then there's your answer.
Well I suppose a lot of people might have an addiction or two. Mine are chocolate and cashew nuts, I've been trying to kick it, really I have it just hasn't worked, oh well what can you do? Anyway when its my time to go I want to go out clutching both of my 'addictions'. Not sure if anyone here wants to be clutching a pack of cigarettes on their trip to the other side.
Hello my friend! I have gone out with friends to places where lots of people smoked and had to go outside because I just could not breath. Even in one and one situations I have a hard time concentrating because I'm trying to get fresh air. My daughter is slightly asthmatic so smoking is not something I can have around her. Glad to meet you.
Divorce isn't about winning or losing. It's about a relationship which has irretrevably broken down, with divorce being the less painful choice for all parties.
There is nothing worse than being in a loveless or abusive/violent marriage. I know first hand what it is like as a child to grow up in a family where my parents only stayed together for the children. Sometimes not getting a divorce hurts the children more as their lives are in turmoil. Many couples are oblivious to what their child sees and hears within the family. They feel that they have shielded the child/ren from the rows and violence, but if you asked the child you would be surprised at the way they feel about being caught up in things.
You seem to be swayed by the high profile divorces of celebrities you read about in the papers. REAL life is nothing like that. I know of many women who have walked away from a marriage which wasn't working, with nothing.[/quote
"It’s a simple idea behind this thread , I am a logical and rational guy that believes in evidence , if you believe that the evidence you have to support your belief in your religion is undeniably conclusive then present it , and if it is conclusive I will have to admit it and you will of converted me . However be warned I have heard most of the arguments and they fall flat on their face so be sure before you post."
Yes so I read it again. But my question still stands. I could have put up any picture there(there are some that put up picutes of movie stars or pics of someone other than themselves)and you would have made a judgement call on what you saw. Either you believe who I say I am or you don't. Either way you would have to either choose to believe me or not based on what YOU SAW. Of course, later on you might read something I wrote and then from the way I wrote it your brain might come to the conclusion that there was no way possible I could be that person you thought I was. The same is true with proving or disproving religion or anything else. Even after you have LOOKED at all the evidence and your MIND has processed it. You still have to DECIDE whether you believe what is presented or not. If you choose not to believe something does that necessarily mean the other person is wrong.
Sorry but the date would not get very far. I literally have problems breathing around cigarette smoke. I hate the smell of it on my clothes and others. So while I do not like to discriminate its not something I can physically be around.
Lets put the mirror aside for the moment, Do you believe that I am white? You've never seen me, you only have a picture to go by don't you? I could be any colour. What colour do you BELIEVE I am?
I'm not saying the urge to date is not there if you are a separated person. But I suppose it would depend on how long they have been separated for. Are there laws that determine how long you can be separted before divorce. Either way as the person on the opposite side of the coin I would want to take all these factors into account but personally I don't like unfinished business, if you wanted out of the marriage then be done with it and make a clean break. To get involved with them before they have completed their divorce and sorted out whatever emotional baggage that may come with it you take on a huge risk that they may not yet be ready for another relationship. And there is still that lingering possibility of them RECONCILING with their former spouse after you have now become very emotionaly attached.
Would you ever wear hair extensions, wigs or a toupee?
Hi Hugz yes it looks quite healthy and thick.