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RE: whos viewed

Star Trek Fans

Watched the new trailer last night, that younger spock is kinda hot

Star Trek Fans

Resistance is futile.

Star Trek Fans

I enjoyed the first set of Star Wars Movies, as for the later ones - it was all downhill from there.

Star Trek Fans

Yep the Wrath of Khan was my favorite Star Trek Movie.

Star Trek Fans

Are there any other Star Trek fans looking forward to the new Star Trek movie What do you think of the trailers so far? What is your best Star Trek Movie?

Plastic surgery is it good or bad

Plastic surgery has been in the spotlight a lot lately. There have been a lot of horror stories of plastic surgeries gone wrong, as well as the success stories. There are those who swear that having certain procedures done has changed their lives. Under what circumstances would you go under the knife to have it done? And what procedures would you consider doing?

As a single parent how big a role does someone accepting your kids play in you deciding to date them

As a single parent I find it doubly hard to date. I've been thinking a lot lately about if I did find somebody how would I handle bringing someone new into my kids life. My child is a big priority in my life. I think decisions I make about who I date affect not only my life but hers as well. Would love to hear other people's view on this.

RE: if you gave yourself an indian name what would it be

One of my best friends who does archaeology gave me an amerindian name. It's Anakematokaori(pronounced anna-keh-mahtoe-kaah-oree) it means Earth Flower of the High Mountain Brave.

Till death do us part, the deadly consequences of love gone wrong

Many of us who joining CS or other dating sites, live with the hope to one day meet the right one, maybe marry and have kids if so enclined. What if you met someone whether online or otherwise and got into a relationship, married/or lived together, had the kids and then it all went wrong. Now one of you wants out and the other doesn't. There are man for whom the vow till death do us part is taken very seriously and sometimes to deadly consequences.

There have been quite a few stories in the papers here recetly of relationships gone wrong where the woman wants out of a relationship(for whatever reason) and the man still wants to hold on. In most normal cases they might seek counselling or simply go their own way. However there has been more than a few cases where the men have decided that if they can't have the woman in their lives then no one else ever will. So they decide to end it and by IT I mean their lives - and that of the woman. The trend now seems to be first murder the woman and then drink poison(usually a deadly weedicide) or hang yourself. Some men however have taken it a step further and completely bypass the woman and take the lives of their own children.

Some recent cases come to mind. In the first one the couple separated and the man had the two kids. I suppose the stress of both the ended relationship and the stress of having to now raise two young kids contributed to his decision to poison both himself and the two young children. Luckily the two children survived their father's madness but not without spending a while in the hospital. He was not so lucky. In the second case I heard about, a man and his wife have an argument and the next thing you hear he has taken his two year old for a drive, forces the child to drink poison and drinks himself thus ending both their lives. How does a person stomach forcing their child to drink poison? And there are stories much worse that this this where after an argument with a girlfriend she in anger tells him that the child just a month old is not his. Later she goes out leaving the child with him. When she returns she finds the child covered up in bed, supposedly asleep. When the child does not awake,she investigates to find the child not breathing. The child is taken to the hospital but it is too late. Upon investigation it is found that the man has in a rage taken the child and bashed its head on a couch. In the end - it turns that the child was indeed his. One common thread relationship problems. In yet another the wife wanted to end the relationship and the man didn't. He tried to get a reconciliation - that didn't work, so what did he do? Hack the wife to death and then poison himself. And on and on it goes.

I have noticed that in this society a lot of men do not think it is cool to seek any form of counseling. It is not seen as macho or manly. They do not feel they can go to their male friends to talk about their problems with their relationships because they will most likely be laughed at and told - "Why are you bothering with her, plenty more fish in the sea". So when hopelessness hits they feel there is nowhere to turn except to end it all. How society socialises men is also to be blamed in a lot of cases. Women are seen as mere posessions, as property or as an investment. Many think - "How dear she leave!, after I have invested so much in her! Well no other man is going to benefit from my investment!". Or better yet they think that if they deprive the woman of her children by killing them what better way to punish them with guilt for leaving them. I think they just do not deal with breakups well and take what I would consider the coward's way out. Would love to hear your comments.

RE: having trouble finding that special somone?

well there are plenty special someones on this site, you just gotta find the right someone for you that's the hard part

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Really, stirring up some fun for who? Others who find rascist comments drapped as humour funny? I don't lack humour, you just lack a sence of knowing what is offensive genius

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Thanks Jvaski for bringing that to world attention. Under Bush and others that cash crop really took a beating. Thank God for Obama!

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Please Indy, you gotta stop!
I am finding it too hard to and wipe my eyes while laughing. I'll phone God and ask if he want's the job of President. He's perfect, he knows right from wrong and he always keep his promises. There now that should silence the whining. Anyway thanks for once again proving That the MORE THINGS CHANGE THE MORE THEY STAY THE SAME roll:

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Too bad there isn't a laughing and rolling around with tears in my eyes emoticon, so I could use it here. I guess I got the answer to the question I was wondering and all I can say about this whole thing is THE MORE THINGS CHANGE THE MORE THEY STAY THE SAME

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Bill must have been a reverse Oreo then

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Let me just play the advocate. We all know that Obama is half black and half white. That would make him a mulatto. Everyone is saying he is the first BLACK president of the US? Now the same way he gets to be called the first BLACK president because he's half black does he get to call himeself WHITE president too? Now the answer to that will really determine how FAR things have really come.

RE: how will having a black president of america help change the world ?

Last time I checked skin colour doesn't change things policies do.

Is today's woman too materialistic

I have come across a few guys on this dating site and a few others who have voiced a common complaint - they think that a lot of women are looking for Mr. Rich and if they meet a guy who is honest, hard working and caring - but not well off, that given a choice they would take Mr. Wealthy. They are convinced that a poor guy does not stand a chance. No matter how much of a decent good man he is, he can't compete with Mr. Moneybags. They are convinced that women where they live don't want a good man so they feel forced to come online to hopefully find women who probably will put less emphasis on the material. Is it something that they are doing wrong or is it that women are more concerned with putting materialism before love. Would love to hear your comments.

RE: LOVE on net...

I don't think there is anything wrong with being an Iraqi, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting one myself but I do think a big part of it is all the bad press that your country has received.

RE: LOVE on net...

Are you asking if people find love on the net? and you want to hear some success stories?

RE: READ YOUR MESSAGES LADIES PLEASE!!!!

Rejection is part of the game here bro. I have sent people mail and not always gotten back replies, does that mean that the guys I sent them to were not the NICE guys? It's a hard lesson but I guess people can CHOOSE to REFUSE. Do like me and start developing a thicker skin.

RE: i am so sad.................

Rosetta Stone it's the fastest way to learn a new language clicks, clicks.

RE: i saw somany profiles.....did mistake?

People English may not be this guy's first language- give him a break LOL

RE: i saw somany profiles.....did mistake?

That's not nice

RE: how many people have fell in love with another person on this site?

Be strong sister, been there done that. Don't waste time on people who don't deserve you.

If you met someone online when would you know this could be the one

Hi guys,

So you been swimming around the dating pool for a while and you decide to try the online dating thing. Lets say you finally meet someone who seems interesting, just when do you know that this could be something more, what would make you want to make more of a commitment to this person instead of throwing them back into the dating pool. Experienced online daters give your 50 cents worth of knowledge lol