I have observed that there are a lot of men who will pursue a woman they find attractive. Initially they woo with flowers, poetry and sweet nothings. A few brave souls may even depending on the passion of the pursuit may even whisper the words "I care for you or I love you". All the while the woman may have been cautious but having heard that many of us having heard those words have been inclined to slow down out pace in the chase.
However, I have also observed that once you reciprocate with the same words there is a change, the flower giving may start drying up, no more poetry or little love notes and then there are those men who treat you as though you are just another friend. Some retreat back into their man caves - chase over. Baffling male behaviour - any comments?
If you've had a very bad divorce what are some of the issues of trust you have entering the dating world again. What would it take to convince you to marry again.
There's a certain mystique to many serial killers, many come across as intelligent,charasmatic, harmless and often times good looking not like the greasy weirdo down the road so its easy to forget that evil wears many faces.
I would be willing to be that this is more a problem psychologically than a matter of "love". Bet she thinks he's this poor wounded man that all these people have done wrong and he really does have a heart of gold because he mutters sweet nothings in my ears so he can't be what they say he is. Give me a break!
Lord it just takes one idiot woman to make women look stupid in many peoples eyes. What is she too young to have read a newspaper to see what this guy has done and see a pattern forming here. But then again some women just get off loving the bad guy until they find themselves six feet under. Congratulations Psycho and Lamb to the slaughter !
Oh I forgot my other favorites. Indian, Native American and men from some of those South Pacific Islands are to die for! what can I say its that spoilt for choice thing again.
You and the ex need to go sort out your Controls issues and soon, because from the looks of things if this continues the next time you guys have a power struggle she may again reach for the scissors and soon you'll have a very bald three year old running around.
I like to be spoilt for choice so I will go American only because of the diversity of men from different countries to be found there and I see a lot of people going European but I'm gonna go outside the box and say Caribbean - so many islands, so many choices.
When oh when Lord will adults stop using children as pawns in their games. This issue was never about the child's haircut its about Power and Control - who has it and who wants it. Been there and done that. I've had my ex do much worse but I have realised that for my daughter's sake civility must reign, problems between adults must be worked out by adults not by involving innnocent children in the drama.
Guys you've gone out with a girl on a few dates but you've not been intimate yet. What signals do you look for that tell you she might want to take it to the next level.
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Do men enjoy the chase until they've caught you?