im sorry your sad... you will heal by degrees,and enjoy many things along the way.you will start a new adventure in your life now,with many experiences that you havent had while married.your pain will ease.... look ahead..
personally i would say that's his call,not yours. as long as your not aiding and abetting inappropriate behaviour where his wife's concerned.something has obviously made you uncomfortable with the status quo however,i would trust my instincts..
i dont want to believe that there is only one true soul mate out there-cos that would mean i had mine and hes gone from this world.im hoping there are many people that mirror my inner core,been searching a while now,but im not about to give up!!
i think it would depend on the circumstances-there is too many variables here.you cant take on board a blanket rule,you must weigh up every time,feelings,social etiquette,trust,personality,mood,stability,your truth from your experience,may not even equal someone elses...lots of grey areas...
i don't agree with you..cos thankfully Ive experienced love,and it was everything and more. i may never experienced it again as fully,but i will always know its possible..
i dont speak for anyone else,but Christmas for me,is a mixture of some rituals,my parents had in place,and some i invented. my children and i greatly enjoy the atmosphere or decorations-the tree,snowmen,father christmas and stockings.
we all go out and buy 1 decoration for the tree each,every year,which is my invention,and we enjoy and take pride in out tree.
father christmas magicaly leaves a stocking full of small gifts on christmas morning.and we all make or buy a gift for each other and enjoy the happeness produced when we have chosen well.
we spend christmas day and boxing day with family or friends,more gifts,food and a day to see extended family.
i haven't changed my mind through forums or long discussions with friends deeply involved with church societies.
i choose to do and live the way i feel is right,and take responsibility for my own actions.
i do not suggest my 'way'is appropriate for everyone.its just my way-and i am happy with my rules for living,which do not include any form of religion.
ah but i live in cyprus-no carpet lol just cold tile floors....and 3 little munchkins that would find it rather strange to have a man in the house,and would probably attack you with pillows,till you begged for mercy..
yep cyprus flights have te worst food and staff-but the cheapest lol you should have stoped here a bit-but weathers naf at the mo-lots of rain and flooding..
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shhh!lol behave!
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