To be honest Big John. I wouldn't go on a date with a plan drawn up. I just would just let all flow naturally and see what happens. I would keep a first date very trivial. Instead of seeing if two people are compatible via meet up, I would tend to allow for natural instincts to connect via having fun and extremely light chats but I would answer any questions that was asked of me, but asking too many questions can be a big turn off for some people. On my first date, I would try to be fun, humorous and be a good listener.
LOL But you are right, they are not all real. Scammers love to get email addresses so they can bot and hack your password.They are now into your personal life. It wouldn't take too long to hack it either. Same here on CS. A professional hacker could get into our accounts and read all the mails we recieve and send.That is why most places reccomend we change our passwords regurlarly. But there is genuine people on here.....I hope.....lol
I understand Mercedes. But there is nothing quite as annoying as mailing someone you think is a lovely person but, in reality, the person in the photograph is not that person at all.
I'd be more worried about the ones that use photographs. They are so easy to lift of sites. I can be you if I want. I just have to go to your profile and lift your picture and use it anywhere, anytime I do so desire. Examples could be other dating sites, other socializing sites. Anyone can pose as anyone. So how can you tell if your mailing someone that they are real? That they're actually the person in the picture?
Very true Mercedes. I am implying how safe do you feel mailing new people. Do you feel they are genuine from off the bat or do you feel they may be dodgy. If you feel that they are dodgy, what does it take to make you feel more contnted with them?
We have lots of threads about people recieving mail full of hatred and hurt. Have you ever recieved a mail that made your heart race, woke up the butterflies in your stomach or made made your knees go wobbly?
You don't have to say who sent it. Just say why it made you feel that way.
Yeah I agree with you. Rattle and Hum came out after the joshua tree. It was the last album I bought of theirs. I liked running to stand still, it was a good song along with red hill mining town.
When i send Mail, I tend to keep it friendly and easy going. Any relationship be it friends or love needs time to develop. Don't text or do webcam unless you are comfortable with it. I don't blame you, I just rather mail for a long time and then if the person is ready to meet, then talk about it in mails. Get to know each other first. If someone is mailing you, and they are of no interest to you just tell them straight, and wish them well in their search. The site cates for people looking for friendship and those that are looking for that bit more.
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RE: When you go on that first date what do you...
To be honest Big John. I wouldn't go on a date with a plan drawn up. I just would just let all flow naturally and see what happens. I would keep a first date very trivial. Instead of seeing if two people are compatible via meet up, I would tend to allow for natural instincts to connect via having fun and extremely light chats but I would answer any questions that was asked of me, but asking too many questions can be a big turn off for some people.On my first date, I would try to be fun, humorous and be a good listener.