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Dec 16, 2008 12:40 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
I had asked to be put on the list for; "Donating a kidney to a stranger list:
Received an phone call this morning.
Because of having high blood presure, I do not qualify as it may affect the kidney.
What a bummer! sigh sigh sigh
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Dec 16, 2008 12:43 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
hollandgirl: I had asked to be put on the list for; "Donating a kidney to a stranger list:
Received an phone call this morning.
Because of having high blood presure, I do not qualify as it may affect the kidney.
What a bummer!


The thought was there J,

thats the good thing ,

at least your intentions were good bouquet
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Dec 16, 2008 1:00 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
livinglarge: The thought was there J,

thats the good thing ,

at least your intentions were good


True, but it does not much good to the one person in need of a kidney.
I was told this morning bringing this to the attention of others was the next best thing.
This is what I did, lol I see twice.
Did not mean to do this but what the heck..........?
No real harm done eh?
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Dec 16, 2008 1:17 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
Yep, High BP can cause a myriad of complications....especially some high bp meds.

But the alternative of not regulating your BP is far worse.
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Dec 16, 2008 1:26 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
DazzleYou: Yep, High BP can cause a myriad of complications....especially some high bp meds.

But the alternative of not regulating your BP is far worse.


I know I am just disappointed. It is the same reason I can not donate blood.
I am now checking into donating bone marrow.
Do you think/know if the same applies? No, if having high BP?

I chose to donate a kidney as it seemed less painfull as having
bone marrow extracted as I have read this is very very painful.
I am no hero when it comes to pain.
No donor for bone marrow if having high BP?
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Dec 16, 2008 1:35 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
hollandgirl: I know I am just disappointed. It is the same reason I can not donate blood.
I am now checking into donating bone marrow.
Do you think/know if the same applies? No, if having high BP?

I chose to donate a kidney as it seemed less painfull as having
bone marrow extracted as I have read this is very very painful.
I am no hero when it comes to pain.
No donor for bone marrow if having high BP?


I signed up to be a bone marrow donor after my daughter's good friend & my high school friend's son (same person) passed away from lieukemia (sp?). Haven't been called yet.
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Dec 16, 2008 1:39 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
I am not a transplant specialist so I can't really advise one way or the other. I know BP affects your ability to donate in a lot of areas including eyes, lungs, etc.

For two reasons....one, a subject with High BP tends to have abnormal blood circulation in the capillaries and smaller arteries that often supply blood to such organs.

For example, a person with high BP often site bulging feelings in the eyes when their BP is at its highest.

I don't know about bone marrow though. It seems that High BP would not affect bone marrow as I know it.
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Dec 16, 2008 2:02 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
DazzleYou: I am not a transplant specialist so I can't really advise one way or the other. I know BP affects your ability to donate in a lot of areas including eyes, lungs, etc.

For two reasons....one, a subject with High BP tends to have abnormal blood circulation in the capillaries and smaller arteries that often supply blood to such organs.

For example, a person with high BP often site bulging feelings in the eyes when their BP is at its highest.

I don't know about bone marrow though. It seems that High BP would not affect bone marrow as I know it.


Thank you Dazzlw will now need to inquire about that.
I know my heart is good and strong if that helps?
comfort Bummer I must be good for something and I mean before my dead,
as that is another 30 years away.
(my first plan, to pass my mom she died at 94 1/2)
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Dec 16, 2008 2:30 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
hollandgirl: I had asked to be put on the list for; "Donating a kidney to a stranger list:
Received an phone call this morning.
Because of having high blood presure, I do not qualify as it may affect the kidney.
What a bummer!



I can not donate life saving organs, either
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Dec 16, 2008 4:15 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
I am sorry you got such disappointing news. I know it is important to you to help.hug hug
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Dec 16, 2008 4:27 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
CjTenorSax: I am sorry you got such disappointing news. I know it is important to you to help.


Life is full of disapointing news. (good news too and that gives the balance)
Now find out I can not even be a bone marrow donor.
If you have given blood you can give until 71 years of age
so here I would fly just under the radar.
If, however you have not been allowed to give blood, the cut off date
is 60+
One thing left is stem cells.

Boy sounds I am good for not much until I die lol.
Who knows what all can be used and needed in 30 years eh?
Maybe limps?
Hope and plan to be around to find out.
cheering dancing cheering dancing cheering dancing
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Dec 16, 2008 4:42 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hollandgirl: I had asked to be put on the list for; "Donating a kidney to a stranger list:
Received an phone call this morning.
Because of having high blood presure, I do not qualify as it may affect the kidney.
What a bummer!



hug hug
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Dec 16, 2008 4:43 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
My brain maybe can be used by others in 30 years, could be?
Your eyes may be bad for you but perfect for the patient.
Now the same maybe good for the brain, good for someone else that is.

Look how far we have come since the first heart transplant in Africa by Doctor Benard was it?
How many years ago that this took place not that long ago really.


cartwheel joy cartwheel joy cartwheel joy
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Dec 16, 2008 4:53 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl: I had asked to be put on the list for; "Donating a kidney to a stranger list:
Received an phone call this morning.
Because of having high blood presure, I do not qualify as it may affect the kidney.
What a bummer!



I can't donate either.
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Dec 16, 2008 4:57 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
hollandgirl: Life is full of disapointing news. (good news too and that gives the balance)
Now find out I can not even be a bone marrow donor.
If you have given blood you can give until 71 years of age
so here I would fly just under the radar.
If, however you have not been allowed to give blood, the cut off date
is 60+
One thing left is stem cells.

Boy sounds I am good for not much until I die lol.
Who knows what all can be used and needed in 30 years eh?
Maybe limps?
Hope and plan to be around to find out.


My mother has given blood since the war, three times a year and was horrified when she was turned away when she hit 70, she kept asking what was now wrong with her blood that had been good enough for the last 45 odd years.

She never did get a satisfactory answerlaugh
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Dec 16, 2008 5:02 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Sounds like you too would have if you could have.
Hey that rhymes somechick lol
cheering

Yeah it is the thought that counnt they say but it is not helping the one who soo desparetly needs it.

Oh Lord some of my spelling is atrocious oh well
dancing dancing dancing
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Dec 16, 2008 5:58 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Hi Drui see that I started two post same subject.
Did I read you won't be alone the Christmas?
Hope so for you
hug hug hug
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Dec 16, 2008 6:18 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
Jenny I can relate,I was an organ donor upon death as well as on registry for 9 yrs. to donate bone marrow.I also was a vip donor for Red Cross.Made me feel I was giving in some way.I am now diabetic,so all down the drainblues However I still am having my organs harvested for med students for training.
If you are able please donate upon your death,it's like part of you will live on.I worked in a hospital and I saw the joy of someone getting to live because someone gave something when they didn't need it anymore.Be someones hero please.
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Dec 16, 2008 6:33 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
rizlared: My mother has given blood since the war, three times a year and was horrified when she was turned away when she hit 70, she kept asking what was now wrong with her blood that had been good enough for the last 45 odd years.

She never did get a satisfactory answer


Yes that would have hurt me too and I believe they owned her an explaination for sure. 45 years is an very long time!
The good thing about donating is also knowing your health is okay.

angel angel angel For your mom
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Dec 16, 2008 6:37 PM CST Just received the news this morning............I can not do it............
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Maybe it's just me but I'll donate when I'm done with them.wave
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