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How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

That's the way I keep my men......on a leash.....long enough so they can hang themselves.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

If I can get him under control, I'll get those suggestions from you. I'm going to take him for a bundle.. Thanks Pan. And thanks for your posts. Really appreciate getting to know you better..

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

Stop sticking your tongue out at me. If I do let you take me out you can be sure it will be a very expensive place in Houston or Dallas. Now behave yourself..

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I think I didn't explain myself. My concern isn't the poster that didn't agree with. It's the rest of the regulars that see me everyday, who say something if I'm in a thread. It's just a matter of recognition.

When they ignore me it makes me think that they think I'm a troublemaker and I don't want that label. It's not about them not liking me. It's that I think they think I'm trouble.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

Really sorry about that. Pan it is. I'm very particular about how my real name is pronounced so I truly understand.

Let's have lunch...

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

You are very strong Pandy. I've seen your posts and I never respond to you cause I'm afraid you'll give me a whack alongside my head. I'm joking when I say that but in truth, I don't respond to you because I'm afraid of what you'll say to me. Okay, you can hit me now cause I'm ready for it....

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I'm ready..........waiting.......waiting....waiting

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I'm trying to keep up with everyone... I think I got all of them

Now listen you pretty wittle thing. Sounds like a scammer. I can just as well come down to May-hee-co and put soap in your mouth.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

Shut up you wacko.....

Don't panic people....private joke..

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

Ahhhhhh, thank you sweets...Right back at ya.. and a little more... just for fun

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I don't need to be popular. In real life, I'm an introvert believe it or not. CS are the only people I talk to besides my daughter. And even if I'm not liked, it's nice if people give you recognition. That's what I see missing ...... sometimes.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I'm sorry Mary, I have to think of them as real. I don't have a mean bone in my body. I'm opinionated but the things I've seen on here, how people bash and argue at the drop of a hat bothers me. I'm very selective of the threads I go in and who is already in them because I know some of those people will have something negative to say about me.

I'm just a human being who treats everyone else as a human being whether behind a computer screen or in the grocery store.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

That's the part that I have trouble with because I'm seeing that if I disagree with someone today they will ignore me tomorrow. It's proven itself time after time. I'm whining about it because it does hurt my feelings. And It's really sick that I'm whining about this.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I'm not crying.

In fact I'm laughing at how stupid those crying emotes look.

Hug for people who took the time to comment in my thread.

Thanks guys.

A little present for you

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

See now, Jac was funny but I don't have that gift.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

You made a good point that helps to make my point.

When you write "CS is only in my minds eye .....". That is why it's a problem for me when people ignore me because I take the people on CS very seriously even though they are cyber people. I still think of them as someone who has a heart with feelings. Someone who can be hurt, or is sick or has family problems. When they write about something sad in their life, I feel it in my gut. I take CS people to heart. I think of them as real people.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

Very well said Jac.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

Couldn't agree with you more.

Now I have to get personal. Most know that I was in a thread a few days ago. The other poster and I disagreed on a subject. I think the majority of people agreed with her and that's fine with me. Prior to that thread, people had fun with me. Since the thread NOBODY responds to my posts.

Now why is that?

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

I know what you mean, and the same people put up the same stupid thread BUT they are the popular people.

Let me ask it this way. Do you think those stupid threads were written so the person will be popular. It's the same people all the time. Nobody calls them on it because I guess they have a right to write a thread about whatever they way. BUT, my opinion is that they do it to draw attention to be one of the "in" people on CS.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

When you say "you" do you mean me?

What do you call a dunderheaded nonsense thread?

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

That's right Boban. And if that feed comes at the cost of hurting someone. That's what I object to. And I'm not just talking about myself. I've seen so many people get bashed by a group and it disturbs me how people can do that. People have feeling. Words do hurt.

How important is it to you to be popular, to be liked

No doubt about it, people have emotional needs. I think some fulfill those needs by saying whatever fits at the time so that they will be liked. It might be something funny so that others will laugh. I definitely like to laugh but not at the cost of hurting someone else. When people laugh at jokes the person might think that they are popular. Or, when others disagree with someone, everybody disagrees collectively assuming this makes them one of the “in” people.

People aren’t liked anymore for who they are, what they bring to the table. It seems you need to be one of the crowd whether on CS or RL to be accepted as an individual that you may like whether others like you or not.

Being one of the “in” people has never been important to me. I’ve never been popular but I’ve always been respected.

What I’m seeing on CS is, if two people have a discussion today, there will be people who will side with one of the posters. The more who side with one poster become the popular people and tomorrow they won’t even give the time of day to the other poster, who the day before they were friendly with.

Perhaps being popular builds self-esteem and confidence but how much can you trust that the clique you are in today will watch your back tomorrow.

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Fair weather friends.....here today, gone tomorrow..

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Mars candy bar

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Earth to Mars..................come in, earth to mars..

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Peace Corps. USA.......

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please go home

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shine my shoes

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PLEASE TAKE THE LAST WORD OF THE PHRASE THE LAST PERSON USED AND ADD TWO WORDS TO IT

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Wolf Man Jack