WOW !! Some very prophetic people today. I am very much in agreement with Bodeling that we are all dreaming, however, to throw a curve into it, I think we are all in hell now. Some say they want to go to heaven when they die. If there are only two places....heaven and hell....then if someone wants to go to heaven, they must think they are in hell.
What do I know I have two dreams: one to wipe away my past and the other to someday get a good nights sleep.
That's great J.D. It takes a real man to admit his mistake
I see you around but was never offended by anything you have said in the past. You're right, we are human and we have buttons that people push and if we aren't in control of our own actions, we get as you say hot under the collar.
So, we had a conversation and we're both still hitting the keys and smiling. Have a good night and best be to you.
Not everyone is kind. Some people like to stir up trouble if it's a boring day in the threads. They do things just like what is happening now in this thread...which technically has nothing to do with the subject....but that's what happens when someone makes a comment about something other then the subject. People jump on and the thread gets blown out of proportion.
When people have a different opinion from others is when a thread gets nasty. Several of us say that we like Tater but he didn't behave himself. You think it was a bum rap that he got banned. I think it would have been a bum rap if he wasn't warned. But he was warned and in essence he put his finger to them and they gave it back to him.
J.D. do you know that if you click on the "Reply" button we'll know who you are responding to. I'm not being sarcastic. Just thought you might not know. It's helpful cause then we know who you are responding to.
J.D....if someone flirts with you in the threads, and you think they are not as attractive as you would like them to be, would you say....thanks but not thanks. You're ugly girl???
If someone else flirted with you in the threads and you weren't interested because they are a plus size girl, would you say...thanks but no thanks, you are too heavy?
I saw those replies from Tater to two different women and I was very shocked that such a nice guy would say such things in a public forum.
This word "right" gets abused all the time. Just because people have the right to say what they think, IMO, it doesn't mean they should say them. People want their country to be diplomatic. Then the people themselves should follow that practice.
You are quite right Summer. Even Vinny said my father was a bully when I mentioned that I was beaten several times when I was a child. I'm no longer worn down from him since he died in 2001 but I do have a lot of arrogance and condesentation here at work. It goes with the territory....they are lawyers
And yes, I am worn out from always dealing with people who think they are above everyone else. I need an island with just a treehouse, indoor plumbing, chickens, fresh vegetables and a chocolate factory
Hi Summer....My father was angry all the time. He thought he was above everyone and the truth is, he was actually below everyone. My family was poor to the core, infidelity ran rampant as well as trouble with the police. So to answer your question as to why some are able to control anger, I think those who do control anger are people who don't always have a need to prove that they are right. Self-esteem and confidence carries them rather than a choice of words.
I don't hide anger well at all except in the threads. If I'm angry at what someone said I log out of CS and don't deal with it.
This morning I went to the dentist. He said I have to get a tooth extracted and then I need a bridge consisting of 5 teeth. Anger???? You have no idea how angry I am. It's a lot of money, time from work and I know already that I will be dealing with pain.
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I have two dreams: one to wipe away my past and the other to someday get a good nights sleep.
RE: The dreamer dreams the dream
Oops. It was 3 different people. Sorry HotRodLarry. Didn't mean to forget you