I am hurting like hell but I will be damn if anybody will try to close me up. I will fight anyone who tries to close me. I will take on anybody who tries to hurt me.
Be willing to accept that it might not. That way it is always not a given. See that other one as a person and a friend. A friend is someone that you go to when you don't have all the answers. Like hey friend what do you think is our problem? Then listen. Discuss without taking over. Be a partner not a ruler. If she is better at some things then you are then accept it. It is not a bad thing but rather a good thing. Be willing to share. Show that you care by be willing to admit the possibility that you might be wrong. Share responsibilty and make a chore list if you have to. If it don't work then stop that and try something else.
Some day my princess will come. Sorry, I had to change the noun, lol. Aren't flowers so special? Don't they let you know in a few words that you are special, too? Just a little fake flower and how it can make a big difference. Could you imagine how it would feel to be sent a real one? Flower Power. Let flowers rule. Insanity can be shared. No reason to be nuts alone, lol.
I can relate. I can make mistakes. Sometimes my mistakes can help others. Sometimes my mistakes make me seem human. Scary being human but someone has to do it. Don't worry about scaring people because lonliness is even scarier. Impatience is the scariest of all, to me, atleast. Be yourself even if it scary. So many times I have posted and felt so vulnerable and even thought of what others might think of me. If I knew the steps maybe that would help but where are the steps posted so I can follow them? Slow is better I am sure but how slow can one get and still be moving forward or how can one tell if one is moving backward? I have seen some who ended before they started. Just take your time, dear because there is no reason you have to rush. Be patient with you and you will find that your true friends will be patient with you. Know always that your friends are there for you and will catch you perchance you should fall. A heart can heal even one that is broken. Guard your heart, guard your soul, guard your spirit, guard your body, guard all that is you until you feel you have found that right one for you.
If I was really into you then wouldn't you know it, lol? How intense of honesty can you handle? Does it take words to show you how I really feel? If I truly told you what I wanted to say then how fast can you run away after you heard it? I have made the mistake of being upfront and honest and it never fails that it must be tested to be accepted.
Aw, those eyes that see right through you and not being able to take your eyes off them. Eyes that watch you move as you cross the room. Eyes that see you and then glance away and how you feel as your eyes meet theirs but then you glance away. The feeling that even when your close your eyes that you still see them.
OMG, Cherie, I do rest better with my hard drive hidden, lol. I do have to take more easy because I worry about my hard drive and besides that I worry about my computer, too.
I love the flowers, Laurie and cherish each and every one. It is so true even if I had to learn the hard way that it is the little things in life that make life worth living. So many times I would look at some new fangled toy only to find that the best things in life are free.
You are right about fathers. My father lived longer than expected. The Korean War and then Vietnam. What ever one did one dared not to shoot off firecrackers near him.
I tried to find me but found only you. I tried to remember me without you but the nightmare was too scary. I tried to imagine what it would feel like not having you. I am lost without you and you have consumed me and there is only you. Once there was only me but now there is you. My heart isn't mine only now because part of it is you. You define me and give me you. I gave of me and you gave of you. What do I matter since there is you? This heart is taken and taken by you.
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RE: Why is there so many people affraid of falling in love?
I fell in something and I will be damn if I know what it was but I sure know it hurts like hell.