When I was so much younger I tried to date girls and they would tell me can't we be just friends. Oh, course being a boy with no friends male or female, I took just friends as a slap in the face. Just friends I wondered but what does that mean? I thought just friends must mean the lowest of friendship. I pondered the meaning for many years until I began to understand the meaning of friendship. What I had began to understand was that just friends is not a dishonor but the way they took me as someone they just didn't want boyfriend to mean. I had a choice and they had a choice but I had limited frendship. As I began to understand friendship and all that it could mean; I found it meant different things to different people. What two people can call friendship can be defined by the two people involved. Just friends is really a honor.
I tried to throw a pie but slipped and had pie in my face. I licked the pie off my face and got back in my little space. It was funny the pie in my face even if the joke was on me. I cranked the box and Lucy popped out with a pie in her hand. Oh, no, I just licked my face and another pie in my face.
Hmmmm I got a farm with all the stuff Joanne has and she has day off. The chicken house needs repaired and other that other stuff that needs fixing. I just thought of something, lol.
If at first you don't succeed, quit. No use making a fool of yourself. Of course, I married mine twice. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Shame on me and my beautiful daughter that I wouldn't have if I hadn't been a fool.
I have loved children that were not mine but would still like to know. There was a questionable doubt on my daughter Vanessa and a friend thought it was his and could of been some other guy beside us two according to him. But when I saw her there was no question in my mind she was mine. For each case an unique viewpoint.
I have found the right ones. The right ones will help you gain the patience and help with the lonliness. I have found ones that each accept a part of me. I have found ones for a lot of different reasons. All that in one person. Wouldn't that be amazing? Been here a while and so far many that might be considered right live so far away. I am in no hurry now as I was. I am content. I hope you find your right one.
Yes, but what about the pie? Oh, the poor pie. And pie all over that face. Whatever can we do about the beautiful pie? For goodness sakes this is pie we are talking about.
I think so, too, hun. What is so cool though is communication. If I don't understand something that you said whose fault is it; yours or mine? I think it is my fault. But if I take something the wrong way then whose fault is it? I think nobody fault but it is a given for me that feedback is needed. It gives the other person the chance to say; no that isn't the way I meant it. And then they could say; when I said what I did I meant to say this. What was obvious to them was not obvious to me. I mean who doesn't like to talk to others and listen to what they say. Then have the other person talk to them and listen to what they said. I lost too many friends before to my lack of communication. I had this natural negativity. One woman I felt had hurt me which maent all women were trying to hurt me. That is stereotyping. With many group sessions and women defending my side of the story at times; I had to change my view of women. It comes out like this now. I am like some women and I am like some men. I am unlike some women and I am unlike some men. Even though because of nature women and men are different in some ways; at some point we are all human.
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RE: Tell me the truth--is this a dating site or let's bash males?
Come one come all to the bash away ball. Bash away, one, bash away all. Lets dance at the bash away ball.