Must be a friend first and willing to accept a friend. With a friend you can learn to share feelings. Must have honesty second. Honesty is about short comings, faults, anger, fears, guilt and that you want to share about yourself. As you share you get more honest. A friendship can grow. Communication is next. We must communicate. The communication you can learn by having a friend to talk to. You can't be afraid to show your feelings because your feelings are part of the love. Must be willing to accept me as i am willing to accept you. Willing to accept becomes before accepting. Must have want, need and desire because that is what I have. Must be willing to trust just like I have to. Must have patience just like I have to. Must be willing to give and accept just like me. I wouldn't want anybody to do anything I couldn't do. Must be willing to accept a male and all the hangups that come with that. Must be willing to forgive like I have to forgive you. Must be able to say I screwed up when it happens just like I have to do. Must be willing to argue but understand to just like I have to. Above all, must willing to sacrifice like I have to and try to do everything in your power just like I have to to protect us from ever having to be without each other because we both know what being alone and single is all about.
If there is someone at home with you then talk to them about it. If not welcome to the forums. There is love here. Some come and some go. Some stick it out. You will feel it here but it takes time to truly know someone here just like in the physical world. In the physical world you touch with your hands, heart and mind. But here your hands are busy typing. You can find out about people here and there are people looking for love.
Was remembering this date. It was a long time ago. She gave me cheeseburger that was her dinner at work. We sat down when she had time because she was still at work being a waitress. "Highway to hell" was playing on the jutebox, lol. Was remembering this other date. She told me to take a walk. I saw her three states later. The worst date I ever had was right before I left to go in the National Guards. So many letters and no answers.
Getting to know who I am Helps me to get to know you. Getting to know who you are Helps me to to get to know me. We whisper our words When we can't share them But sometimes our words change. We can be serious even when we joke, We can laugh When we want to Or we can choose not to laugh.
It is good to know people and it is good to know yourself. This place helps in so many ways although some are not as obvious as others. The internet, dates and interactions can give many thoughts. Any thoughts? I am Aquarious. My thoughts never quit.
You don't even have to try It comes easy for you The way you move is so appealing It could make me cry Go out driving with my friends In Bobby's big old beat up car I'm with a lot of people then I wonder where you are
Good times, bad times, give me some of that Good times, bad times, give me some of that Good times, bad times, give me some of that
I don't want to say goodbye Don't want to walk you to the door I spend a little time with you I want a little more
Good times, bad times, give me some of that Good times, bad times, give me some of that Good times, bad times, give me some of that
This is really a cool thread. Just think about it for a moment. Think of the bigger questions here. What does love need to exist between a couple? Isn't differences and similiarities both important? Could you imagine what it would be like to be with someone exactly like you? Isn't it important for a quality time for two people? Isn't it important for each to have their own time to theirselves? Isn't it important for both to have friends in common and friends separately? When you are attracted to someone and you try to change them; haven't you affected what attracted them to you or you to them?
If it works don't fix it. If it is broke it needs fixed. (Maintenance)
Machines and couples need oiled and greased once in a while or they will fall apart. (Preventive Maintenance)
To be oneself, which has been a real struggle for me because I am still learning who I am and to let another one be theirself is what being single is all about. I believe another's viewpoint of themself is them being theirself being single. Since I can accept who I am and they can accept who they are; I believe it is possible that two can be free together in union.
Human lifeform not present and umbilical severed. Feel of touch gone but touch of feel is now present. In harmonic union we are in touch with body, mind, heart, spiritual self and aura. We sense the presence of that which is not us. Our skin tingles and we shiver when a specter of energy touches us. This significant other is an eerie sensation of phantom sound and ghost visual. We meld with the specter and now we are more than just us. Temporal distortion of our harmonic resoning causes us to be new tuned. We retune ourselves as the entering spirit leaves causing us to be vacated and newly formed.
2good sounds like she is invading your personal space. If you could tell her she is invading your space by explaining it to her how you feel about it she might back off some. She may not be aware of how you feel about the invasion.
Geez, a lot of work you are doing. Carpeting is easier to take care of in my opinion and easier to maintain. Berber is easier on you vacuum cleaner. The yarn gets stick in the beater on long carpet and if the vaccum cleaner goes out you can still use a broom. Yeah, I like the be done with it, lol. Wow, you two sure have been busy.
Once ex becomes ex then ex means ex. I did double ex. I would rather be horse whipped and put on the rack then dipped in hot boiling oil then do triple ex. Somebody just shoot in the head if I ever even think about it, lol. Stick them in a rocket and send them into outer space and maybe aliens from another world might understand them, lol.
This place is real but different than real life. Things I can do here like kissing and hugging seems real in the sense I can feel their feeling and my feelings. But in the physical world I wouldn't be doing all this kissing and hugging with different women. I am an one woman man.
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RE: Must haves in a relationship
Must be a friend first and willing to accept a friend. With a friend you can learn to share feelings. Must have honesty second. Honesty is about short comings, faults, anger, fears, guilt and that you want to share about yourself. As you share you get more honest. A friendship can grow. Communication is next. We must communicate. The communication you can learn by having a friend to talk to. You can't be afraid to show your feelings because your feelings are part of the love. Must be willing to accept me as i am willing to accept you. Willing to accept becomes before accepting. Must have want, need and desire because that is what I have. Must be willing to trust just like I have to. Must have patience just like I have to. Must be willing to give and accept just like me. I wouldn't want anybody to do anything I couldn't do. Must be willing to accept a male and all the hangups that come with that. Must be willing to forgive like I have to forgive you. Must be able to say I screwed up when it happens just like I have to do. Must be willing to argue but understand to just like I have to. Above all, must willing to sacrifice like I have to and try to do everything in your power just like I have to to protect us from ever having to be without each other because we both know what being alone and single is all about.