I think it is great we all have different opinions. Cuts down on the competition. I am a big guy but had to lose weight due to health. Doctor told me if I didn't lose weight I would die. But pretty is as pretty does, too. I have met very pretty skinny ladies with big egos. They were so in love with themselves that they didn't have room for anyone bigger. I like a lady with meat on her bones. I have found bigger women to be more forgiving even though I know it is not necessary the case always. Since I am a heavy set guy I like heavy set women. Thicke, If they can't accept you then that is their problem and not yours.
I thought so, too. I used to have a bad attitude and nobody could change me. I like surrendering because that allows me to change. I know we are who we are but sometimes change is necessary and sometimes we have to adapt to changes. I can adapt to some changes but some changes take time. Have you heard that old saying, "back in the good old days things were different"? I think that one has to be theirself but be adaptable to change. Otherwise, when someone tries to change them because in their opinion it would make them better; one can cop an attitude. I pick up a lot of good stuff in here and if I find something that can help me; I pay attention to it whether it pisses me off or not.
Is it ok that I sing it? I think this is a sad song.
Nobody's Wife lyrics I'm sorry for the times that I made you scream for the times that I killed your dreams for the times that I made your whole world rumble
for the times that I made you cry for the times that I told you lies for the times that I watched and let you stumble
It's too bad, but that's me what goes around comes around, you'll see that I can carry the burden of pain 'cause it ain't the first time that a man goes insane and when I spread my wings to embrace him for life I'm suckin' out his love, 'cause I, I'll never be nobody's wife
I'm sorry for the times that I didn't come home left you lyin' in that bed alone was flyin' high in the sky when you needed my shoulder
you're like a stone hangin' round my neck, see cut it loose before it breaks my back, see I've gotta say what I feel before I grow older
I'm sorry but I ain't gonna change my ways you know I've tried but I'm still the same I've got to do it my own way
It's too bad, but hey, that's me what goes around comes around, you'll see that I can carry the burden of pain 'cause it ain't the first time that a man goes insane and when I spread my wings to embrace him for life I'm suckin' out his love, I, I'll never be nobody's wife
It's too bad, but hey, that's me what goes around comes around, you'll see that I can carry the burden of pain 'cause it ain't the first time that a man goes insane and when I spread my wings to embrace him for life I'm suckin' out his love, I, I'll never be nobody's wife
But then there is the flipside. My father had custody of my sister and me. I guess he did the best that he could have. But like my mother, I am trying to be a good parent after they are already grown. I moved back and forth between parents so that has to be taken in consideration, too. I was closer to my step dad at times more than my biological father but both were good for me. Although, my step dad never abused me. But maybe, I was just too rebellious a kid. Don't know.
I like the part of who thought children was best with. With first marriage, I was not responsible enough and too selfish to consider myself a good father or husband. Then with an infatuation that I thought was true love with the fact that I would have a second chance to prove to myself that I could be a good father and good husband; I eventually agreed that the mother was right because the adoptive parents love the child as much as me. Still it was a struggle because of the recovery at work in my life. I just wasn't able to do any better than she did in the decision. Then the time mother said if ever we got a divorce again that I was going to get custody because she didn't want it. Of course, when it came down to it; it was the same decision as always. I married again but this time no children came of the marriage. But after just a little while she wanted to be back with her children even they was already all past eighteen. I chose her over my children because I didn't have custody. The two children that carry my last name have accepted me as the way that I was and they still love me. In all three cases, I accepted the fact that I am not a good father and that the mothers and adoptive family were better parents than I was. Bch Bum, you are a good father and a real jewell.
Hey, I like living in a fairy tale. True, Alex. I like Lene's sensitive side and Alex's tough side. Maybe, I can only one part of somebody and not another part. I don't know. But then I have noticed one that I have been comfortable with all sides, hmmm. Gee, Apes, that guy must really be special. Just commenting as things seem to me.
You, know, I should start writing some letters just to let friends know that I think of them as friends. I like the letters and I should write, too. Heck, I guess friends can forget they are you friends if you don't remind them. I know I forget things.
I was that way, Nene. But the grieving process just made even worse on me. Not trying to justify or to rationalize just way it feels. Geez, it is tough growing up in here, lol.
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RE: Religion/Spirituality What do you believe?
It has helped me.