Yea conrad. Go ahead and take the suit off...and be glad that a woman is asking you to do so. I had a woman e-mail me last night and ask me to put my cloths back on.
Number #1 Gilly. I would ask for #1 so that I could observe how life evolves and understand more about the secrets of life. Then when I am satisfied, I could lay to rest.
I understand and I was recently laid off. But I mean just meeting for a cup of coffee, talking, saying hello and making a friend. I also understand the distance issue. Most people are not going to drive 500 miles for a cup of coffee with someone. I happen to be unique in that desire. I drove 2000 miles for breakfast and to say hello to people I met years ago. It took me 34 hours to drive straight through.
I think that a big part of the problem is how we see each other and ourselves. Honesty is another problem. How many of the men and women on this site are completely honest with themselves and others.
Well, here is a thought on that subject. We have many people who might say, "No one wants to meet me" or "I can't find anyone." Yet we have a thread where some of us have suggested that we actually make an effort to meet others for the sake of meeting with no obligation, and what happens? People scatter. Where are the posts saying, "Great idea. I think I will do that." I already know the answer.
I understand the point. Before technology advanced as far as it has with the internet, you had to go out to meet people. Now we get our fix on the internet by typing responses to little one inch pictures.
In reality? If I do nothing to create my future, then none of my dreams come true. How successful would people be in their careers if they sat at home saying, "I really wish an employer would call me and offer me a good job." It doesn't work that way. When people are sitting at home lonely it is because they choose that for themselves, not because no one is out there.
I did the same thing many years ago and my doctor told me exactly what you just suggested. Taking the meds and stopping over and over will cause mood swings. He said that it takes up to a month for the meds to have a leveling effect and should be taken as prescribed.
Nothing wrong with being on medication. When people have a headache they take medicine for it. When they have a cold they do the same. Why should anxiety be any different?
RE: wHAT DO YOU DRIVE AND HOW....
Then here is the woman for you...