calmheartseeks Forum Posts (505)

RE: why do people not like you?

Because I see right through them. lol.

RE: what truly turns you off

No, ped, its just a lot of wonderfulness.

To the above poster, please post in a smaller font. Hard to read. Thanks...

RE: Do you got what I want? Cuz, I got what you need...

Honesty with compassion, sincerity, loving, kind, happy at heart, intelligence, generosity of spirit, humility...the list can get long but that's the stuff of dreaming...

RE: What would you prefer to be?

As I said, I would prefer to be more intelligent.

If I picked more attractive, that would the increase the number of opportunities as far as dating goes, no question...but I prefer quality, not quantity. lol. I have no desire or need for being wanted for that reason...it is kind of like riches that way...you wonder what you are really being loved or being pursued for....your body, or your money.

RE: Sweet Caribbean Girl

I have plenty of humor, thought you were telling me I needed lessons in how to use the search function on CS (ABC Its Easy)?

My only point in posting was how her thread reminded me of the old song by Sandy Posey, Single Girl. The lyrics repeat the refrain, The single girl needs a sweet lovin' man to lean on.




Thanks for the beer fellow university "graduate". So nice in the heat of California days.

RE: Sweet Caribbean Girl

Huh? Don't know what you're talking about, just posted how this thread reminded me of an old song.

RE: Sweet Caribbean Girl

The single girl...wants a sweet loving man to lean on.

RE: Honesty

People should know better than to ask questions like, "Do these jeans make me look fat?", hoping for a reassuring compliment. They know the answer if they have eyes...but personally I wouldn't be cruel by replying "honestly" to questions like these.

What would I prefer in response if I was so silly to ask this question? "Those jeans aren't as flattering as your dark blue pair, they make your figure look best" or something to that effect rather than, "Yes, you look as fat as a mac truck in them. Have you been eating again?"

RE: Do you have a conscience?

Let's hope more candles don't go out.

Because of the increase of evil, the hearts of many shall grow cold.

RE: New site changes

You give permission by agreeing to the Terms of Use of this site...so we have all given permission.

Some people don't understand how the Facebook posting works.

When you create a blog, you have the option to have it be submitted to social media (Facebook, etc.)

It appears this is on by default.

If you comment on a blog that has these options enabled (you will find it at the bottom or very end of the page, so easy to miss), anyone on CS can submit that blog and its comments to FB, Twitter, etc. These sharing options are not new, they are available on many Web sites.

It will not be on everybody's FB, just on the FB page chosen, at least to my understanding. If you have "shared" a site before, it works the same.

I would be curious to see how it looks on FB myself.


Unfortunately some people may not like this and will remove their picture to be anonymous (as I have).

RE: ”…friens first” = impotent

Suit yourself. Ok, enemies first.

(Kidding. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be friends before you start a love relationship...haven't you heard of marriage partners being best friends?)

RE: Happy Birthday Shine!

@tru

RE: Who will perform best in the tv debates?

If you lack a compass, you should not lead.

Running a business is not the same as running a country.

RE: Who will perform best in the tv debates?

Whatever happened to the importance of integrity in the Presidency?

RE: Why no one believes,if I tell the truth?

Change always begins with you.

RE: Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?

That's good. I wish I had more of it. I tend to stay up late when I shouldn't.

RE: Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?

True, most of them did. The sad thing was he so wanted to be an actor.

I loved his songs though...not all of them, but a lot.

My brothers and sisters were fans (they were six years older) so that influenced me a lot.

RE: Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?

lol. Many people are ruled by the heart or the physical?

Sounds like you slipped, stumbled, and fell into love. Don't know if you are an Elvis fan. :)

RE: Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?

When I said my mind didn't want to want him, I meant that he had personality characteristics that I knew would not be good for me in a long term relationship.

Still, there was this really strong attraction.

When we love, it's hard to have everything fall in place: to love with our mind, with our heart, and so on.

RE: Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?

As others have said, I don't see how we can "choose" a soul mate.

It's just a two-way attraction.

I have met one I thought was close, but I wouldn't say he was a "perfect" soul-mate.

And my mind didn't want to want him.

RE: ...........curious....?????

I think John Lennon had a budgie on a stick.

RE: woman

And you have met every woman on the earth?

Of course there are true/loyal, honest women. By that I mean they are honest in their dealings with others and the ones they love, and are faithful partners.

RE: Breaking up

Were some of the issues that you didn't spend quality time with her, or she felt uncared for?

Were some of the issues probably going to recur in a relationship with another woman because that was your lifestyle/personality?

If you kept breaking up because she did not feel listened to, you may have the some problem or problems in another relationship.

You give no clues in your post about what went wrong between you, so it is hard to give an opinion.

Good luck.

RE: disrespectful women

Most scammers are black Nigerian men, using a women's fake profile. Definitely don't have good manners.

RE: How was yourf first kiss experience?

I think it depends on the kisser, but I barely remember mine.

RE: What happened to Yuri Gagarin's eyebrow?

Reportedly it was caused by a fall:

RE: Time to say "Good bye"

Most women don't want a man to say right from the beginning they have to support him, before love exists...they want an equal partnership...but not having money by itself doesn't mean someone won't be loved...as other women have said and I myself know, you can love a man for many reasons!

RE: What are your favorite TV sitcoms?

Two and a half men, mike and molly

RE: Ladies, would you date a man who is shorter than you?

Ni, so if they are two inches shorter than what they say they are...if a guy says he is 5 foot six on a profile (and a woman five foot eight), she thinks, that's okay, only two inches shorter, but he shows up actually four inches shorter (5 foot 4)...lets hope she doesn't wear heels when they meet! Better to be honest at the start about everything.

RE: When she refers to you only as my friend, does that mean she is not interested in you?

It would depend on how she worded it. If she said, "he is my friend,"
that could be a good thing, for all relationships should start off as a friendship as others have discussed here. However, if she said, "he is ONLY my friend," then she means there is no romance involved.

Hope this helps.