In the year 2030 I'll be.....let's see.....well ......nevermind how old I'll be. Sadly, my perfect partner would be bald, toothless, eating pablem (sp.?), and wearing depends.
I would KEEP them BOTH.......at least for a while. Make his life a living hell. And hopefully she would either come to her senses and our friendship would survive.....or......the shame and embarrassment would get the best of her and she would feel the need to move on.
Should I put one of those pine scented tree shaped auto air fresheners inside the pillow case and keep a bottle of FaBreeze close by ......just in case???
Hi Sheba....I too have Ms and like you, to look at me on most days, no one can tell that there is anything wrong with me either. I also look normal and healthy but can no longer work or do some of the activities I used to enjoy. I was married and working with 3 young children still at home in 1992 when I was first diagnosed. The disease hit me hard at first. I spent 2 years in intensive physical therapy regaining my eyesight and learning how to walk again. I became a single mother in 1994, went back to work and managed to continue working another 10+ years until I became ill again in 2003. You and I both know our limits and we both know what fighters we are. I refuse to allow my illness to dictate the rest of my life to me. There are plenty of 'emotional cripples' in this world who wouldn't accept you or I for our illness, but then, would we accept them with theirs? I think not. We have chosen to fight MS and its effects every day. In a strange way, Ms has become my friend over the years because it has made me a much stronger woman inside, but it is not the sum of who I am as a person. My own personal choice has been not to put my health issues on my profile only because there are people out there who will use a disability as a tool to gain your trust and confidence, as well as to obtain information about you which can and does lead to identity fraud in some cases. I do tell people as soon as we have established lines of communication. There are plenty of people in this world who will and do accept us for our limitations. If we don't dwell on them....why should they?.........Pati
Thank you to those who responded intelligently. I'd like to clarify that I DID NOT start this thread to acquire a list of 'Who's hating who'.....but thank you also for your input.....two more people I can add to that list of 'How I see you treat others'.
P.S. Don't email me with your sad sob stories of who you don't like and why. I won't debate your choices with you. And I'll make my own choices of 'friends' here. I won't respond to those emails because I DON'T WANNA KNOW AND I DON'T CARE!!!!!!!!!!!
I posted this thread under 'I'm new here' because I do still consider myself new. I've 'met' some very nice people here and seen the posts and profiles of others I'd like to get to know. BUT.......I've also seen a lot of references in the forums to 'who's pissed at who', 'who's doin who', who's fake, who's got multiple ID's, who's a player, etc. etc. etc........WHO CARES???!!!!!! This is supposed to be an adult site. I'll be the first to admit I enjoy a certain amount of kidding and silliness. But as far as the bickering goes.....makes me take a step back and think.....I try to judge people only by the way they treat me and the way I see them treat others. If I see someone who I am beginning to make friends with treating others poorly, I've got to ask myself.....What makes me think I'm so special that if I were to do something to irritate that person he/she wouldn't attack me in the same way. My point being......I feel if you have an issue with someone, it doesn't belong in the forums. Or if you feel the need to take it there....say your piece and be done with it. As far as players and multiple ID's.....I'd like to think that I am an intelligent enough woman to weed out the bad apples. Am I way off base here or what???
I'd take Belushi and Thuds to a comedy club. They could do their routine on stage. I'll be their agent and we will all be rich
I'd also like to take Paws on a picnic in the park. That man is just so full of interesting thoughts.......
Lastly.........I'd like to take Steve to an oyster bar and then home to ----- --- ------ ---. (Sorry, this secction has been edited for mature audiences only)
Magsy......I will add you, Dave and his family to my prayers. When the time is right you two will be together.... I wish you happiness, health and much love......
I'm leaving in the morning to go to Utah to visit my oldest daughter and my granddaughter. I should be back in about 10 days. Just wanted to say thank you to all the nice people I have spoken with in the forums for making me feel welcome. Be safe, be well, be happy, and take good care of one another. I'll see ya soon
RE: What did you want to be when you grew up?
I wanted to be a famous dancer.