kekei Forum Posts (588)

RE: i want it all any rich men out there

You tell it storm. Having money is great but it sure doesn't guarantee happines, for us at least, maybe she is different. I hope she finds what she wants.

RE: Is mixing race a good idea or a bad idea

Oh really, which scientist said that? Would a Jamaican do? hhahahahaha

RE: Is mixing race a good idea or a bad idea

Well oh damn it, I must confess some like their coffee black, some prefer it mit milch und sugar so what? Some of us just like coffee. I would like to believe that love transcends colour. And by the way, I have seen many mixed persons here and there was nothing to suggest that the highest percentage of premi babies were of mixed race. In the end, I say to the author, believe what you like, rubbish though it may be. It's yours, embrace it.

RE: hey

Yes, I hear you but finances play an important role in relationships. Statistics shows that one of the most significant issues that cause failed marriages is actually finance. So don't knock someone who looks at it from that point of view. Some men just don't want anyone else in the union but themselves and their offspring/children. One guy who proposed to me suggested that I have my child live with a relative. Listen up. He had no need to worry about financial issues re: my child, he just did not want a child in his home that wasn't his

RE: stuck up ladies

That is so true

That is so true, for me at least. You really don't always have time to respond to everyone and my God are some people scary. Don't take it personal. Besides there is one particular person that I had to block. I responded politely, wished him well but he would not stop. For some reason he always knew when I was on and would send me an IM. I would nicely say that I could not speak to him or was in communication with someone else and he would keep sending flowers and e-mails, once again, I said,"Good Luck with your search". At another time he sent an IM and I said that I really did not wish to waste his time as I was pursuing other communications and oh boy...SO yes. Sometimes, I just delete the flowers or the e-mail to save myself the stress, other times I send a flower back and wish the person good luck with their search or I may say thank you or something. The truth is that most times I just don't bother because being polite can spark alot of unwanted communication. Sorry

RE: Younger male with an older woman

You just always crack me up. From what I see at home, alot of you old buzzards have young chicks. So that explains it,

RE: I BET NONE OF YOU KNOW HOW TO PROPERLY MAKE LOVE TO SOMEBODY

Yes but can I tell you, once I got it so good I thought I was in love. Seriously, love or no love we must aim to please

RE: That's DISGUSTING!

You know what, I was thinking the same thing.

RE: Younger male with an older woman

The focus for me is maturity. If he is a little younger but we are on the same level intellectually, that could work. I guess a lot depends on what your needs are really. While age does matter to a lot of people, it really should not be too big a deal.

RE: what is wrong with him?

Do you really think that is the situation with genuinelass? men can be crazy sometimes you know,can't we all be, haha.

RE: A really geeky question on dating.. and stuff. .

Please tell them sweetowen. I am not saying he or she can never change but believe me you can't make them. They have to see the need and decide to and even then it can be hard. Sometimes cheating can be like an addiction.

I have a friend who married this lovely woman who he knew had cheated on some of her previous partners and had slept with his friend while they were engaged to be married. Before the wedding she swore she would never do it again, sadly, they are married now and she has not changed. He thought he could change her.

Now it breaks my heart to see him and it makes me mad to see her

My uncle is the opposite of that, for years he had a separate family with children that we knew nothing of. One day he told me about it and my jaw hit the floor, he had bought a home for this woman and everything, afterall he said she was the mother of his children and he wanted all of his children to have a permanent home. He grew tired of lying and said he was going to break things off with this woman and tell his wife. Ofcourse the woman was all broken up and she told his wife first.

His wife threatened to leave him but stayed. He is so carefulnow. He lets his wife know where he is always. Now I know some men are sleek and can do that and still cheat but that's is his way of saying to his wife," I love you and I don't want to screw up again". The woman on the outside is still pissed. She thinks his family had something to do with it but he is trying to stay clean now I believe he is serious and his wife says if she gets the slightest hint that he has gone back to this woman she will be gone. Things are getting better between them, they love each other and she is trying to forgive him and he is trying to regain her trust.

That's how it is when you love someone and you mess up. You do what you have to to make things right. My uncle says he has been clean two years now (Of his extra-marital affair) I hope it stays that way. How many of such stories have you heard? For me, very very few.

RE: what is wrong with him?

Some guys are just like that. I have the same problem where I live but I sorted them out real good.


Take Care

RE: Oh Lord Online dating is not for the faint hearted

guess what hopefloats, online or offline dating is just hell.

RE: Oh Lord Online dating is not for the faint hearted

listen, count your blessings, there is the other stage where you gets lots of hits and oh my, there are some unbelievable people, oh there are not married but they are, oh they have no one but they do or they are just trying to screw as many people as they can but they tell you all the right words ..

Take it easy darling, take it slow. Something will happen. I find just communicating with persons in the forum is a lot of fun. There are lots of ways of meeting people here. Select a few and send mail too. Have you tried that? Keep trying and be careful and all the best to you. I know its tough but there are many of us here who feel your pain and are hoping that you get lucky. Oh sorry, are hoping that you meet your special person

Christian Carter- how to attract the right person

I keep reading and hearing about his articles, how to attract, how to keep, how to cheat proof your relationship...has any one out there tested his advice, I want to know... a friend keeps suggesting that I try, not that he has but he figures if it works for me there is a chance for him.

Don't Give Up

you have a point there. you really do, hahaha

RE: Why, Why, Why

Ofcourse, I did and now its payback time. I have a child that asks why, how, where, when, who, let me see if its so... I don't mind. She is learning. When I look back at my own childhood most of my questions were answered. I try to do the same for my child, sometimes I ask for a break then I get back to it.

I think people are alot more responsive to the queries of children today.

Don't Give Up

I have read and spoken to so many persons who are just about ready to give up on love. If you are one of those, I am speaking to you today. Don't. There is always a chance it could still happen. You could still find the love of your life. The love of my life is my kid, oh what can I tell you? She makes me happy, accepts me for who I am, doesn't care much about how I look and is excited about little surprises I bring her way, loves my cooking and laughs at my silly jokes. Is there a guy who can compete with that? Call me

For every one who has been meeting the wrong types, a friend once told me that sometimes, you have to meet a few wrong types before you can be able to appreciate the right type. Try to be positive I know it is hard but stop for a moment and look at what you have instead of what you don't.

Please don't give up. Love comes in many forms.

Kekei