My first suggestion is that you learn how to respect women... Second, learn to trust your non desperate self... just relax and be who you really are so you can give women a chance to get to know THE REAL you...
become AWARE of your fearful self and STOP focusing on it!!!...
... you seem to be coming across very desperate and this puts many women off the idea of even wanting to talk to you, let alone wanting to go on a date...
There are many here who are offering you some gr8 advice but advice is only useful if you learn to take it seriously and put it to good use...
Best wishes in your search ZEB and remember to relax!!
he would have to be verrrrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyy special for me to remarry but as far as living anywhere in the world, I'd want to stay in the best country ever!!!
... the risk is always gr8 to be out in the open but if we remain closed as to where we are at in this world we wouldn't have the opportunities we get from being open...
There are a few more dogs than usual in my profile... it's who I am and what I'm about but I don't wear pets ... it's what I do for a living and make an excellent living out of it
I get to do what I LOOOOOOVE to do too!!
... and that my friend, brings me "JOY"
May you have "JOY" in your life also bro and cheers!!
Question: do you really want to get bk with him cuz you love him or cuz you can't bare facing the thought of being the one who has been rejected?
been there and done that sweetie!!!
it never feels good to be on the receiving end of rejection, "NEVER EVER NEVER"... but it feels even worse, if you are rejecting YOU!!!!!!!!
think about it for a minute!
... he may have caused you hurt by rejecting you in the past... but how is this hurt gonna STOP NOW if you are rejecting you too!! You are doing to you what he has done!! You give him the power and control over you by doing the same to yourself!!!
Do you see this?? ... perhaps you don't want to see it ... it's not for me to force you to see it
anyway... it's just my opinion and sounds like you might be allowing yourself to believe in him MORE than you believe in yourself sweetie and this will always end in tears!!
yeh!! I think many experienced the same as it was a society thing ... not celebrating anything else other than wedding anniversaries was just a different spin on it and made my experiences more unbearable ...
needless to say, I do go overboard to make celebrations more meaningful for my lot!!!
RE: Plz give me tips for seeking a dating woman.
My first suggestion is that you learn how to respect women... Second, learn to trust your non desperate self... just relax and be who you really are so you can give women a chance to get to know THE REAL you...become AWARE of your fearful self and STOP focusing on it!!!...
... you seem to be coming across very desperate and this puts many women off the idea of even wanting to talk to you, let alone wanting to go on a date...
There are many here who are offering you some gr8 advice but advice is only useful if you learn to take it seriously and put it to good use...
Best wishes in your search ZEB and remember to relax!!