mariespoodles Forum Posts (1,648)

RE: What are you plans for New Years Eve ??

hey there kizzy ... sounds like a fun nite and hope you have a gr8 time sweetie

as for me... I'm heading down the sth coast just past Picton way to spend the next 3 days on a 5 acre property with my sons, man and pooches... yeeeeeeeeeehaaaaa!!!!

Happy New Year to all and especially you Shell

may it be an awesome but safe one folks!!

RE: "Merry Christmas"

2 more sleeps here!!

Merry Xmas to you too!! ... Woohoo!!!

RE: lovely pets

RE: lovely pets

RE: What are you doing

just got bk from doing a pack walk with some holiday stayers

RE: being nice does not work

wow jac!! ... as fd said... very nicely put indeed

RE: Is it better

yes, I believe it was better to have loved and lost, than to have never have loved at all for the simple reason that, without those loves, I would never have taken a closer look at myself and grown from the experience and perhaps never have been blessed with my two amazing and wonderful kids

RE: Is it better

RE: If u don't mind

you may call me "the lady dog whisperer from down under"

hey!! over here!!

OMGosh Mikey!!

the feeling is sooooooooooo mutual precious!!

hey!! over here!!

hey!! over here!!

that's the spirit!! and DITTO!!

hey!! over here!!

this is a thread created by mwah :) to take your focus on a more pleasent journey that is not troll orientated ...

to all those giving air time to trolls please join in and compliment the poster above you to share LOVE around and leave trashy FEAR behind

"ENJOY"


and

MERRY XMAS

RE: How did u first meet CS?

googled it and still here!! must be the that keeps me here

RE: hello

hey there diamond

and have fun

RE: Are Our Standards Too High & Our Options too Great

have the same prob with the glasses thing

the fella is a lovely man I met online about 5 mths ago and so far it's all sweet hun

RE: Are Our Standards Too High & Our Options too Great

been very busy sweetie thanx for asking...
kids, new relationship and peak time with business
have had to cut down with time spent on CS
hope all is well in ur world and nice to see you

RE: Are Our Standards Too High & Our Options too Great

the lady was by very gr8 gf of 28 yrs but it's ok Shell I changed it for ya!!

RE: Are Our Standards Too High & Our Options too Great

not at all Shell and well said hun!!

RE: Where the farrrrrrrrrk is?........

all together now ... whooo let the dooooogs out??

woof, woof, woof woof!!

hi all

I'm still here

Aussie Aussie Aussie!! Oi Oi Oi!!

RE: Are there any women out there that are living a truly Christian life?

I gotta say that in my experience I found there to be a common thread in almost all religions I have studied... the "I'm right and you're wrong" syndrome!!

not really very christian like if you ask me ... life is about trust and respect not power struggles in my opinion

RE: Long distance. He hesitates. Should I give him deadline?

what does ur gut feeling tell you hun??

my experience with my ex hubby was a huge waiting game of sorts... everything we did to get to any next level was my making and all he did throughout was procrastinate about taking the nxt step with me and we lived in the same town with no distance between us like you have... we got to have a child, buy a house and get married yes but it was my pushing and shoving to do all those things that got us to those levels in the relationship... I was met with resistance from him all the way... after 18 yrs I made the biggest decision of all... TO END IT... I realised he couldn't make an emotional decision to save his life... but it went on and on until I stopped making excuses for him and called it for what it was... FEAR... we either embrace with LOVE or reject through FEAR... in the planning of it all there was never an "US" strangely enough... I never felt wanted but put up with it cos he was a passive player and kinda got under my raider cos he was easier to handle than an aggressive type.

I have learnt that PASSIVE people and AGGRESSIVE people are all the same to me... "ENERGY DRAINING PARESITES"... I don't waist my time anymore... the biggest thing that came from the relationship was our wonderful son who would not be here if I hadn't been so tolerant with his father's passive Bull****t!!... it hurts immensely to finally wake up and discover he just wasn't that into me in an emotional sense... that unloved feeling... he claimed that he did love me but the only way he knew how to show it was to provide for me cos he was the man and anything to do with the domestic side of life was not his job, including making emotional decisions... this attitude only gave me the impression that this man was not into sharing in a meaningful way... it was more about being happy as a stepford wife or lump it cos he didn't want to change or even compromise... may suit others but certainly didn't suit me...

when you're on ur death bed, it's not money you take with you but the love you hold in your heart...

my point to all this is, that my gut feeling was right all along but I stayed in my head and heart and ignored my gut feeling... if you allow procrastination for whatever reason, you may just have a difficult path ahead as I experienced... be wise my friend and believe with all ur might that the gut feeling is never wrong... allow it to be your guide through this difficult time and all the best

RE: Should I be ashamed?

very true df

RE: finally back ... Did u miss me ??

a Libran thing do you think??

RE: I AM A VERY LONELY MAN

yeah I know ur havin fun haha!! nice to see you my dear and hope all is well

RE: Come up with your meaning :)

hey Shell

RE: I AM A VERY LONELY MAN

enough already!! you and your intimate encounter equiya

hee heeeeeeee!!

RE: would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?

hey there robsantiago

when it comes to the pooch, ever heard of the allergy free breeds??

Bichon Frise, Poodles (3 sizes if you don't like small dogs), Schnauzers (also come in 3 sizes), Basenjis, Airedale Terriers, Lagottos... just to name a few... there r many more of these breeds available and are not the type that would have a typical dog smell either so if you ever wanted to be around them, you would be fine unless you r just not into animals period I guess ...

smells and allergies don't have to be an issue... JMO of course and thought you'd be interested in some facts

RE: would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?

well said annie and so so so true... BTDT

RE: would you 'sacrifice' your pet for your lover?

<------ know what you mean!!