mariespoodles Forum Posts (1,648)

what do you say?

to true miss MF... to true

I hear you girl... standards are healthy and if they don't get it then all I can say is "NEXT" hahahaha!! I ain't compromising that part of me for anyone

Can you imagine if this type of behaviour was accepted online?? what would a relationship with him look like down the track??
it's definitely unhealthy to take it so hard as he did and say it was personal sheeeesh!! but hey... who am I to judge how others should respond... it is what it is and every choice we make is entirely our own responsibility... all I know is that I'm not in charge of how peeps choose to react... I wonder if he would have preferred that I was backward in coming forward with honesty and let it drag out??... in fact it's these types of reactions that teaches others not to tell them the truth cos they can't handle the truth (a few good men springs to mind lol)... would he have coped with that scenario more so his poor little ego didn't get hurt??... hmmm!! now there's a red flag right there

Onwards and upwards for this little chickadee!!

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WELCOME TO THE FUNNY FARM

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Hey MF

yay sister!! I knew you'd get me hahaha!! that's exactly how it works for me... that's why I say to these lovely men... if there's no relating there's no dating... how much simpler can I make it??

so what are you saying sweetie... that there's still hope for me yet??

has he got a single brother??

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hey pj

how ya doin' sweetpea

yes your right in saying we can't say he was or wasn't insincere... for me it was more a case of not enough via his emails... I even asked if he could go back and respond to one of my emails as he didn't really do that when he replied back... I like a man to at least acknowledge what I write when he responds... I guess coming from a relationship with a mute for 18 yrs has me treading extra careful to make sure there is communication happening more than I ever required in the past and the short and sweet just didn't sit well with me to go for as much as a coffee let alone a trip...

oh well back to the drawing board it is for me

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not quite what I had in mind as I was asking how to say it respectfully but I get ur point

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hi C thanks hun

yes... I think if I continued our chats it would send the wrong message and I wouldn't want that for anyone

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hey fairy always lovely to have your input sweetie

Yes I agree with you 150%... and to lead anyone on with dragging these situations out can only devastate them more... I did what was true for me so I wouldn't hurt him unnecessarily and intentionally

I hope he takes it well and understands my position

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Hope so... it's never easy darls and thanks

RE: geno1957

hi from the mad dog lady down under

enjoy and

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Well here it is... just sent him this message:

yes blank... nothing personal... it's just as i said in my previous emails... if no relating then I move forward... communication is huge with me... hard to know you when your emails say very little about who you are and what you're about... for me it's not about quantity but the quality of communication that matters the most... no offense intended... just speaking what's true for me... good luck and take care...

all I could do to not lead the man on and move on
like I said earlier, rejection is never easy

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ok... I googled "techniques to attract a woman" (think this is where you were going with ur previous post strict) to find some very interesting facts so thanks for the tip sweetie

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Thanks strict... understood ur post except not real sure what you mean about google though... sorry to come across so thick but what do I google?

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ok peeps... what would you say??...

a man who has been emailing me from my city for almost 3 wks just asked me to go to Thailand with him...

The problem is that in the first email he asked me how serious was I about online dating and I sent a message bk stating I was serious about communication... no relating no dating... I was very straight and upfront...

He was doing some kind of maintenance shut down at his wk which he is the manager and apologised for taking so long to reply... I declared no problem there (I'm a quality and not quanity kinda gal so seriously was no prob for me)... just when you can yeah...

... the problem was this... every time he eventually responded to my emails he was a 1 or 2 sentence man... difficult to get to know a man like that, be it in 3wks or 3 yrs for that matter lol...
Now... just out of nowhere he asks me if I care to join him on a work trip to which I replied... nice offer but it would be like going with a stranger... I hadn't got to know him cos his emails were terribly short and sweet... not that I would accept this kind of offer after only just 3 wks mind you but the point is there was no quality communication in these emails that I feel made a connection with me so I then stated that I would leave it there and wished him luck in his search... to which he replied "so what are you saying? you don't want to chat anymore?"
OMG... what do you say to that without hurting his feelings...

any suggestions how to in a nice way??... although I never see rejection as nice regardless of which end of it I'm at

thanking you in advance for your input

RE: Most embarrassing kid’s moment.

sorry to laugh so hard v but that was hilarious!!

how goes it sweetie... hope u been havin' a nice day

RE: Hi Everyone

hey RH



here have one of these

pull up a seat and enjoy the show

enjoy the site and have a good look as there is plenty to do round here

RE: Hi Everyone

welcome ed... many gr8 peeps around here most of the time so mingle plenty and hope to see you in the forums

just remember to duck the occasional flying missiles sweetie

but most of all have fun with it

RE: Hello, again.

Oh darn where's the welcome back emocon when you need one?

I'll cheer instead!!

welcome back muse!! woohoo!!

see you in the forums perhaps?

cheers from down under sister!!

have fun with it!!

RE: Women Are...

AMEN!!

RE: Women Are...

careful wonderworker or you might find out how karma slaps work and then wonder!!

RE: BLESS EVERYONE!!!!!!DRINKS ARE ON ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

Great news Lee... "CONGRATULATIONS"

May you and her have the best time of your life!!

Happiness and true love is where it's at so hope it is just that... just remember one thing for me matey...

EJOY, ENJOY, ENJOY!!

RE: The most vital decade of your LIFE!

hey venus

RE: The most vital decade of your LIFE!

are you a dog whisperer or want to learn??

Ausland is sensational BTW

RE: The most vital decade of your LIFE!

hey V hope ur well hun

in reply to ur post...

good question

new thread title came to mind sweetie

RE: The most vital decade of your LIFE!

The when, where, why, and what for are not my focus... as far as I see it, I create my own luck... LOVE is an ATTITUDE and all I know is that I live my life.

At almost 50, I've never been happier!!

RE: Eyes

I smell a scammer in da house pp!!
hope you're doin' fine my friend

RE: who's real who's not?

would that urge be building up after 3yrs D???


kidding of course

RE: who's real who's not?

mariespoodles: 3 yrs???

I think you've earned the right to be considered real by now matey

scammers don't tend to hang around for that long with the same profile pic you know!! so you're in buddy

oops!!

didn't mean to reply to my own post





another coffee should do it

RE: who's real who's not?

Yes I'm real


























real good at it

RE: who's real who's not?

3 yrs???

I think you've earned the right to be considered real by now matey

scammers don't tend to hang around for that long with the same profile pic you know!! so you're in buddy