hmmmm... it's sounds to me that you may have broken up with him cos you sensed something wasn't quite right... you know... that niggling feeling you get in the pit of your gut... and if he was that quick to hitch up with someone on a permanent basis straight after... well... what does that tell ya? maybe he was a little clingy and not really hitching up for the right reasons in the first place maybe not... this is just my opinion but maybe your gut feeling which was perhaps what you went with to end it was telling you it wasn't right but your head and heart were the ones that had something to do with doubting yourself and hoping in some way that he was the man he would have you believe he was or could be...maybe he really wanted a solid family life but didn't know how to deal with it in a responsible way... who knows as I don't know what his behaviour was like when he was with you and the woman he married but you do, so might be worth having a think about it from where you r now with these points in mind and share some feedbk... JMO of course and hope I'm making sense here
gardenhackle, Conrad and Steve... you guys are gr8... thanks for the lesson on the gadfly... ya learn something new everyday and "definitions of a gadfly" was the lesson here today
you say Great when the Pain eases? yep!! I say a right old Pain in the arses!!
I'm right... no I'm right... I'm right... no I'm right... I'm right... no I'm right... I'm right... no I'm right... I'm right... no I'm right... I'm right... no I'm right...
well... with that enlighening attitude brainyack, it's clear to see why perhaps you will go far... the key however my friend, is putting your actions where your mouth is!!! ... here's to the best of wishes that you do
I was totally bald 4 yrs ago (and not just head hair either ) due to chemo sessions for 6 mths and was astounded by the amount of folks (friends and family mostly) who said I had a lovely shaped head
true story btw and will get the all clear early nxt yr, so no dramas now
it was a good party trick when the turban came off too!!
it helped to inspire me many moons ago and has been with me ever since... how can you give what you don't have is what I say... JMO of course ... nourish urself "SINCERELY" first and all else will follow my friend
ever wondered how they read your energy and body language... what ever your thoughts, feelings and actions are and how accountable you are of those 3 things within yourself will determine and dictate how you are coming across cos it will definitely effect your energy and body language which in turn sends messages... so going by how women ask this question "what do you want from me" according to your experiences... you r either being way to demanding or are associating with women who r afraid to commit... or a 3rd scenario... you r being way to demanding which has the women you r associating with react in a afraid to commit tone due to being overwhelmed... ARRRR!! what do I know JMO and just putting it out there since you asked the question Sebastino
don't think they're listening Shell ... it's ok hun I hear ya!! ... they must have arrived pissed and seein' things already... oh it's gonna be a looooong nite for a Monday
hmmm... you're not wrong there buddy... a labour of love is fine... have no problem with that... moochers on the other hand need a good dose of the old "KARMA SLAP" as they r a different kettle of fish and should be fried
RE: How to deal with u ...to make it mine?
um... get a hobbie or maybe several