why shame?... that's fear bro... open your heart and just read this thread... look around and appreciate all these beautiful souls and learn from those who lead by example... work through love is my motto... just giving you something to think about on those other times
In response to this post... I love humans that inspire to work through love "SPREAD LOVE NOT FEAR"
you have come up with yet another good point too I see!!
I'm sure there r many issues here and we are naming a few but it always saddens me how many adults are the child in disguise, in many areas and not just grief
You said it illu ... I soooo agree!!... forget the dad doing the wrong thing when it comes to dating anyone... he's a grown man... well in the flesh anyway
my heart goes out to the little girl
not him he's the adult here sheeeeesh!! and he is just not realising how he's hurting her more... and 3yrs come on... what's that about ... they both need to grieve and the sooner the better but sadly some ppl would rather come from their own pain and it's always the kids that suffer
Hey kagal... don't know if you can bring his attention to it or speak to someone that knows him, that he trusts perhaps but if that little girl continues along this road it's a sorry day!!
Life's too short for BS and don't intend to be anywhere within reach of it... if this guy is genuine then he wont mind his new title of "activity friend" but if he's not and wants benefits then he will know where the hwy is with no hesitation from me ... I say what I mean and mean what I say thanks babe
here it is!! quote:[Takes all kinds to make this wounderful world of ours go round... including having our dear sweet serious mj in the mix ... ]un quote:
thanx for pointing it out even cracked myself up with that one
hey all back again and hope you all are having a nice day/evening ...nice to see ur thread has made a gr8 feel good place to come to ss1 well done sweetie
Well said zailo1 all decisions if based through love and not fear will always be the right ones to make Love you for advising from a wonderful warm place called love and not fear
LOVE RULES even when in the worst of situations and nothing is ever achieved through fear thoughts anyway except more pain
No Kat... haven't missed a thing... yes this thread is about kagel and her situation with this man but it is also about grief. Grief is a very difficult thing for anyone to deal with... many replies here have been made from all angles and not just what we all think she should do.
Personally I'm not into telling anyone what to decide as ultimately it's up to them... I just see it through the eyes of all who are involved and make comments accordingly... thanks for your opinion though as all opinions are cool and help others see their situation from many angles and not just from their one point of view.
RE: I love humans
Sweety... sorry you feel like that but in my real world it does work like CS...I don't work through fear and that's what lifts my heart and makes my day more than bearable