An EX of mine,was as ditsy as they come, (or so she played it). She happened to be the main complaints manager for a leading UK based insurance company, and dealt with big money and policies, but she says that she checked in her brain when she swiped out!!
I mentioned "played it", as I often would watch her play dumb, around friends etc. when in fact I knew she was already three thoughts ahead of everyone. She played down her intelligence, and acted ditsy, to fit in with the rest of us dumb feks!!!
Personaly, I don't mind dating a woman with kids, as long as she doesn't want me to add to the brood! Also if the father is still around, that can be a bit difficult, not on my part I hasten to add, but he may think that I will take over his father role. Seen it before, and it can become messy!!
RE: wine time
Diet Irn Bru for me, work tomorrow!!