1) Killing time, before the next adventure, whatsoever that might be.
2) From here? No. But it took me about a week to realise that I wouldn't, not on here. The profiles that are local to you, don't vary much, even then there are those that have not been active for over a month!
Okay, no more need for threads which go 'Hello, do you think you would date me?', and 'She has stopped calling me, is she losing interest'.
All your answers here, nice and concise;
1) If you create a thread asking total strangers if they would date you, then you have reached the Valhalla of sad! It's fine asking for people's view of your profile, that gets an outside perspective, however, to create a thread dedicated to fishing for little hugs, and support, well, that disqualifies you anyway, so, the answer to this question will always be 'no, we wouldn't'.
2) If he or she hasn't called you in the last three months, then yes, I would say that you are not paranoid to think their interest is cooling.
3) Yes, if you are never allowed to ring a home number, either they are married, or they live in a prison, and cannot take landline calls. See that as a red flag
4) NO ONE knows why 'guys/girls' on CS don't respond to messages, don't keep communication going, etc, etc. WE have no idea. Maybe they hate you.
5) If I see ONE more thread asking why nice men don't 'get' girls, I am going to scoop my eyes out, with a spoon. So, please, spare me the tears. Stop feeling sorry about it for yourself, and maybe they will find that more attractive? Radical stuff, I realise..
6) Yes guys, if the profile is a STUNNING Eastern European, standing in a bikin, in Miami, who wants to e mail you more pics of her, the odds are that you are communicating with a 52yr old man, with gingivitis, from Nigeria...
There is no denying the cultural difference that exist, though, and attitudes, from nation to nation.
Take our little nation. It has a terrible record for binge drinking, you need only take a walk through the city, of a weekend and there it is.
Not attractive, but like the drunk Brits in Spain, it is how it is, here.
When I was in Prague a couple of years ago, I found the local females still up for a right laugh, but they were less laddish, and had more self respect than their peers over here.
And, btw, when it comes to 'issues', the primary one that I touched on, once, was that of someone with a serious mental health problem.
I didn't really feel any hostility, to be honest, on the contrary, from memory, the bulk of people voted that they wouldn't risk it with someone who had an extensive history of some serious problem.
I don't think that is anything to apologise for, for anyone that voted this way, tbh. It is all well and good, in principle, saying that you would do this or that, however, you have to be in it, have gone through it, to really say for sure if you could do it again.
Of course everyone has hope, even if most sometimes need to give it a little nudge!
That is what I am saying - people get hung up on this idea of there being ONE special 'life' person, and I am saying, don't get bogged down with all of that. One of the reasons why we have threads on here, full of anguish, from members who cannot conceive of meeting anyone else, 'quite like their ex', is because, in their mind, they have convinced themselves of this. It is not real.
Of COURSE there are plenty just like their ex, if that is their thing. And, there are likely a fair number BETTER than the ex.
Their existance is not in doubt, therefore, there is not one person for everyone, there are potentially lots.
It's just finding them that proves to be the hard part!
Let's say that this evening, you are sat there, thinking how nice it would be to meet someone you REALLY feel that spark with. Maybe you have had a few dates, and, it just hasn't been there, and you even get a bit bored trying.
Well, here is the thing, there are probably THOUSANDS of men in the UK, who, this same evening, are thinking the same, and who would get on great, with you.
However, most of them will never be known to you, or you to them, because they live in other cities etc, and you will never cross their path.
In my journey through life, I cannot help notice that the girls with the biggest problems in relationships tend to have had a somewhat fractured relationship with their dad. Sometimes the mother, but more commonly, the dad.
If it's any consolation, in this lottery of life, if you didn't get the 'two cheats' card, you might have got the 'two girls with a BAD mental health issue' card, that I got, or some other thing. It's mostly down to random chance, and luck, good or bad.
That said, it can also be about the type you attract?
How speedily, in each situation, did you get engaged to these girls?
Ya know, to me, that is a lovely story, but it has a sort of happy even after ending to it, which is nice and everything, but is it realistic? You meet a lot of females in their 30's or older, on here, and, they are very cynical, to the stage that there would be no leeway, and they have got that way due to a series of failed loves/dissapointments. Which is fair enough - but it denies them, and the next person that comes along. My point is though - that maybe they are not choosing to be that way, maybe LIFE has made them cynical.
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Polish Girls
I see.Well, I speak more of different behaviours.
Go through any city centre in the UK, Sat night, what do you see?
Drunk lads fighting.
Drunk girls throwing up.
Not nice.
Now, go to many other European nations, and you would find MUCH less of that, among those of the same age group.
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