It's an honest one! Okay, there used to be a part of me that kept them, perhaps because (due to our history of splitting up, then getting back), that held on to them. But the last split was definite, and, I have cards and stuff lying around, that I should get rid of.
I'll do it, this week.
Just go through the lot, and bin and get rid.
Even the pics on my PC, which I never look at, anyway.
I agree with you, fella, that is what I am leaning toward.
I have no desire to look at these things with some sort of sentimentality, anyplace down the line, therefore, I don't realy see what hanging on to them is going to achieve.
If you had an intense, often loving, but eventually VERY bad break up with a person, would you tend to hang on to those cards that were sent, pics, letters, anything of that type - or do you think it is healthier, even 'therapeutic', if you wait a month or so, gather them all up, and get rid of them?
Don't take it personally, just suck it up, and if a few do reply, then appreciate those.
From my experience, no matter what you put in your profile, you are looking at about a 10% ratio of genuine replies. Not high, but there you go. Remember, there are likely a good % of people that you message, who don't use this site, anymore.
There is no magic formula.
Women have the opposite problem! They complain about getting TOO many messages, which also is a factor in why they only reply to about 10%!
Anyone able to design, save, and send, a really eye catching e poster, something that I could e mail to pubs and clubs, as an attachment, or indeed, print off, and give to them?
I am of a mind to try to do something that I have wanted to do for years, but never actually had the courage, but I figured, after the life I have led, having the courage to do this one small ambition, should be got!
So, if anyone is creative, able to knock me up something like this, to a loose spec, then send it to me on an easy to open file, please PM me, and we can go from there.
I guess your last paragraph sort of captures what I mean. Now, I dare say that was an extreme reaction, and not typical, however, I still get the sense that the mother and father of this girl would not be happy about it. I rarely see a fella with an Indian g/f, so there must be a reason for this. That said, I have seen a few Indian guys with European g/f's, so perhaps the culture sees it as less of a thing for their son's, and more of a thing for their daughter.
Maybe I should just give it a punt.
Nothing to lose, save for the fact that she works in the shop I go into all the time, and if it didn't go well when I asked, I would feel a compulsion not to go in, again!!
I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.
However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.
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Destroy/keep?
I'd get rid. I've having a mass clear out, this week, and those things will be first to go.x