I have done it once intentionaly lol I was with an ex boyfriend at the time and his mom had come to town for the Jazz festival. We were in this Irish pub and the ladies room was always packed. My ex and I were well known regulars at this pub. Anywho I just looked at the guys rest room (door was open) and it was empty so I thought screw this I really need to go so walked in and yelled out to see if anyone was there and there was no one so went in and went in one of the stalls and proceeded to use the washroom. My ex's mom couldn't believe it but eventualy did the same thing and I just stood by her door to wait for her.
This man walks in does a double take and I told him yes your in the right room LMAO He points at the urinals and says "Do you mind?" I replied "Nope go ahead. Not like you have something I haven't seen before" LOL (Of course I didn't watch him LOL and we left immediatly)
Havn't done it again since then and don't think I could do it now LOL
I don't know about the other women but I myself am not into those "bad boys" Never have and never will. I prefer a real manly man. A man who isn't afraid to show his feelings. I don't want a big baby either mind you lol but I want a man who will respect a woman like she should be respected and treat everyone with the respect they need.
I am greatful for people like you who are out there helping those in need. We need way more people like you arround and I am happy that you chose to do this in life.
I have nothing against you nor have you ever stepped on my toes and I enjoy reading your advice to others and your posts.
I wish you the best of luck in finding yourself that special someone to complete your life :)
Well you pretty much just said you did not have any romantic feelings for her anymore and that you wish to remain friends. So at least you were honest with her and nothing wrong with being friends. Who knows maybe after awhile you will both start to have feelings again for one another and if not at least your both friends right.
You did the right thing in telling her and just follow your heart and what you think is best.
I agree with the others. Call your IRS or local revenue agency and report ASAP what is going on and they should be able to tell you or help you take action.
Hope things get fixed and worked out for you. I would flip on whoever did my taxes without my permission!!
Oh wow!! That is quite a lot of crap you and your children have to go through and endure! I can't even begin to imagine what you guys are going through right now.
I am glad that you get your daughter back and good luck regarding your youngest.
I agree! It's the father who will have to deal with all the questions and drillings from their children once they are old enough to understand! Who will look like the bad parent then!
And like I said BTDT! and it still hurts now and he is the bad guy here not my mom!
You know what though? If he showed up at like 8pm or something like that fine I have no problems with that but he would only show up at like 10:30pm or 11pm! Hello I need my sleep just as much as my children do in order for me to have the energy and sanity to take care of them on a daily basis. But him showing up at ridiculous hours and he has no reason to at all whatsoever is not acceptable. Again it seems to have to be at his convenience. What about ours? Does he not want a good mother for his child? Well in order for that to happen I do need my rest and sleep too. And what the heck is the matter with daytime??
He comes to see her that late and complains she is always sleeping! Ummmm HELLO!!!!!!!!!! Of course you dummy. Did you happen to notice the freaking time!!!
Arggggggggggh I give up!! *throws hands in the air*
Hey Windy! Don't be sorry! Your just stating your point of view and I have no problems with all sorts of opinions from everyone just as long no one is bashing one another of course lol
I agree with you about the father just suddenly disappearing and then showing up years later like as if there was nothing ever wrong. My father took off when my mom got pregnant with me. Never helped her emotionaly nor financialy. Then all of a sudden I turn 16 and he suddenly shows interest in me? WTH?? I do NOT think so buddy! He had NO excuses to do what he did. How does he think I feel? This is NOT about his needs. What about mine? All those years of me wondering where in the hell he was and questioning myself thinking it was my fault that he didn't want to bother with me. Sorry but no F'ing way! Yes as you can tell its a very sensitive issue with me. Because I know how it feels and like hell my own children will ever go through that. NO WAY!!! NO HOW!!!
Children should always come first!! Like my mom always said "Takes two to tango" He made this child just as much as I did. Its either he is in her life or he isn't. I will not tolerate any mind games. Children are innocent and deserve much better than that.
Oh I can definatly understand your point and that could be the reason.
But I have sat down and talked to him and even told him he could come and see her as much as he wants. Told him he could come every single day and everything. I told him I will not stop him from being in her life but also if he feels he dosn't want to be in her life I will still understand.
I just want him to make up his mind. He needs to realize that in the future it will be his child who will hurt in all of this. Kids are smarter than we think. They can sense tension and emotions from their parents. If he decides he dosn't want to be part of her life then I want him to do that now and not wait till she is old enough to understand and wonder where her daddy suddenly disappeared to.
It definatly is not easy. But its something you do get accustomed to and you get the hang of it. I guess once your a mother your instincts kick in.
My mom raised me and my two brothers and sister all on her own and she did an amazing job. Its not easy being a mom let alone a single one.
My oldest is 8 so he is an amazing helper. Loves his sister to bits and pieces and is very independant so can take care of himself and goes to school which makes things easier on me as well. And he does see his dad every two weekends and on holidays and summer etc..So those time helps too.
I am very lucky I also have friends and family nearby who do help too.
It is tough believe me and time consuming but I would not trade it for the world! :o)
I agree. He is the one who will miss all the first times and etc...And too bad for him because she is my world and I will not miss a thing she does. She is worth all of my time in the world.
Oh goodness no. I will never put my children in the middle. They are the innocent ones in all of this. I do not believe in bashing the father or mother in front of children. I think that is wrong and insensitive of the parents to act that way. No child deserves to have their heads and hearts played with.
As for the father. I don't hate him or resent him. Just disappointed in him because I wish he would realize how this will and can affect his daughter once she is old enough to understand.
I just feel like he only sees her because he feels he has to and not because he really wants to. And if that is the case than I rather he not be in her life at all.
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RE: Still Dancing
Love that song! And I love to dance. Once you get me on a dance floor good luck getting me off LOLTracy :o)