Havn't heard anything either but praying and hoping her surgery went well and she is doing fine. I am sure she is. But would be nice to be assured as well.
Awwww welcome to CS and yes there is lol Just give it some time. It takes awhile and remember in order to get flowers you must send some as well eh :o)
Have you ever had days where you just sit and think to yourself "Why do I bother?" I have been having those days the past few days and its depressing. I try not to dwell on it and I try to think of it as "things happen for a reason" or "If its meant to be..." but I just can't shake it off. Maybe its the rain we have been having the past 3 days straight I don't know but just have some stuff on my mind the past few weeks I guess and the past few days have just sat and actualy thought about it some more.
Sorry if I don't make any sense and for rambling. Its just eating away at me and I thought it would be a good post I guess. Dunno.
I highly recommend it!! It does help a great deal believe me. It has in my case.
And I am sure you will have your moment to cry. And just know you have many wonderful friends who I am sure will be happy to lend their ears and shoulders to you. :o)
As I had just mentioned in one of my replies to this thread as well...Maybe start a journal and write down your feelings everyday?
I know I found that writing in a journal helps and what I do after I finish writing it is re-read it and sometimes that gives me the push to cry and get it out of my system. There is nothing wrong with crying. Like my mom always told me. It just cleanses the soul and freshens you up.
I am the same way. I tend to keep to myself and be quiet when I get down. I don't like burdening others with how I feel etc..
Also another great way that helps me is a personal journal. Every night before I go to bed I write about my day and about my feelings about that day and I always end the day with at least one or a few more positive things. Maybe look into that as well.
Sorry to hear you are having such a hard time with the medication.
I know what you mean. Its something that is hard to talk about. You feel ashamed even though you know its an illness and that your not alone. Have you thought maybe about group councelling? Is there any in your area that you could maybe consider trying. I know I worked better with a group session than just with one on one with a therapist because with a group you get to hear about how others cope and deal with it and it helps to know your not alone and you can get resources and ideas from them etc..
I really do hope you can beat this depression. Its no walk in the park that is for sure and again like I mentioned in my other reply. Feel free to message me if you ever need someone to talk to k. :o)
I sooooo agree with you!!! Lots of great people with great qualities and all.
If I had to narrow it down to someone I would have to say my good friend "BouncingTigger" He is such an amazing guy and such a sweetie. And I hope he finds the right girl because he truly deserves it that I know!
Well in some ways I do not mind being single. But I don't want to be. I hope to find someone who can complete me and make me happy and I can make them happy. But so far it dosn't seem to work :o( It is discouraging I will admit but I guess I gotta listen to my own advice that I share to others..Just be patient and take it one day at a time.
Now as for why I am single. Well I think it could be because I have children. One being very young. I think that intimidates a lot of guys. But other than that I don't know why really. Not like I am a monster or anything lol
For me I am searching for a caring, good looking, active, devoted, faithful, funny guy who loves children and wants to have a family someday and someone who enjoys cooking, the outdoors, and who is romantic as well.
I'm sure there is. Just give people a chance and take it day by day. I consider myself all that you have mentioned. Well at least I hope others feel the same way LOL
People who are so dang negative irritate the crap out of me. I don't mind when you have a few bad days. We all have them. Heck I have had my share of them this year believe me but I can't stand it when you talk with someone and no matter how cheery you are or have something positive to say and they bring you down by being negative.
I had a friend who was like that. She was soooo freaking depressing I just started to ignore her. I even told her to see her doctor because she was depressed but nope she wouldn't.
Maybe she met my female 4 year old medium long haired orange in color cat on CS while we were asleep and they are both trying to escape to meet up? LOL
Must be a spring fever thing. My cat Katine is also a house cat and you have to be careful when opening the door because she always makes a beline for it LOL
And sorry no help so looking for suggestions too :o)
And hey btw..Does your handle here on CS have any significance? I like it :o) I am always pronouncing it whenever I see your posts lol (And Mach get your mind out of the gutter LOL)
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Woohoooo :oD Its about time lol j/kYou look marvelous hun. It is nice to put a face to who we chat with. Thanks :o)