They are kidding themselves that they have no "baggage"! even some who have not married and not had children have some sort of issues, they just won't admit it! Unless you are totally shallow and devoid of any emotion (and who would want someone like that) we all have a past history of some kind.
oh I got the "you've changed" words....hell and why did I change....because I woke up eventually! Not soon enough, kept thinking all would work out, but no.
Hey I feel the same way as you hun, no way leaves or holes in the ground would work for me either! And I couldn't do it even if there was a payoff at the end! I went through too much for my ex, only to end up with nothing, never going through anything for anyone again, end of story. I don't mean my children in the nothing, they are everything to me. I keep telling myself there is nothing wrong with me, but for the fact that second best won't wash. You are so much younger, someone will be right.
You are obviously what they want and they hope you will relent and give them a chance. I understand what you are saying, but it is a complement each time a guy bothers to get in touch. Your right for sticking to what you are looking for, only you know youself well enough to know what you can and can't accept in a partner. You are just too irresistably
So if he does finally drive the 100 miles to your house, would he cook for you and clean your house? Would he bring something he baked or bother sending you flowers maybe for all you seem to have done for him? I doubt it.
RE: You just put a sign on the back of the above person...
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