I know I'm digesting every response, I had thought of what you said post my reply to his thread but getting thoughts out I think is a good place to start.
For example I thought, maybe you should involve your self and others in some sort of stop and smell the flowers campaign. If you know what I mean.
I wasnt sure whether I should be replying in such detail. What do you think ?
Admitedly I havent searched through the threads, so hopefully I'm not hijacking.
If you could change/modify something about the world, what would it be and how would you go about it (if relevant) ? It doesnt matter if its an automatic toilet seat putter downer or hunger and famine. (excuse me for putting those in the same breath).
Hmmm, now theres an interesting post which I will look into.
I was simply going to remark based on the number of successful unions on cs ( which i have no idea of ) i say we will become extinct by the end of the year.
Based on some of the posts and the fact that I know the situation better my gut is telling me I was too full on (I blame the gemini within) and she took a step back. I am now in cruise control rather than on the speed track.
Maybe you are testing yourself for some reason and the answer maybe that you shouldnt have too. I'd say hang on to them purely because you have a made a decision that you want to keep them. I cant say what I would do and I'm not sure that I would keep those things anywhere in sight. Sure it must feel like a huge emptiness has torn your heart but there is nothing you can do to bring him back (as cold as that may sound).
It may sound cliche but i think he would want you to be happy and move on, that doesnt mean you have to throw his belongings away.
My heart is with you, I wish you the very best in the near future.
I think the advice about putting on a show of what you are not is sadly your best bet.
I know exactly where you are coming from and i travelled back to where i was born ! If you dont fight somehow and turn it around, you will look at it as the worst time you've had. Wether this makes you more appreciative of your own country thats another story.
You are right this isnt a world where the good prosper unless you are very lucky intelligent and mingle with the bad or the good that have made it coz of the bad, still with me ? no ok ill stop.
Anyway I think you need to reconsider your approach, think of it as boot camp for a personality you might have to use sometime in your lifetime.
I'd like to reply firstly by saying WOW I wasnt expecting such great input for you all (hmm wish we could decide world issue like this)
I would also like to thank you all for your input,
Zellarrone; I dont think shes a player (strong gut instinct there)
Steve; I think theres more to it than that, but if in fact tehre isnt than I have a good friend like was mentioned by DEADbutWHY.
Naturally I'd like to believe what NAKEDMUDPEOPLE, opentuit, and Englishman55 have said and that is shes had time and in all fairness as a friend she responded with justification given what I said to her. So i totally understand that she felt pressured.
The half fake scenario; thanks sorry I didnt write your name down before the reply "lady somewhere from new york i believe" I did not take that into consideration and this could fit into the situation. She is insecure but a good person at heart or simply as you put it continuing the virtual experience.
I guess this all reaffirms i need to cut the accelerator cable and take it easy as a friend from spain put it.
Met a woman on another site, we chatted; smsd Imd and phone convo
Anyway I started falling for her even before we met and in a round about way expressed that to which she said basicaly see ya too much pressure.
2.5 weeks later she smses me and asks me if my mum is ok ( she had an OP and it was a bit sketchy for a while)
So my question is WTF, why would she sms me and bring herself back in my life if she knows how i feel about her and she jumped ship earlier ?
I would like opinions, I dont need cheering up just a general consensus as to what is happening as I am not in an unbiased and able to think straight position.
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RE: What Is Your Plan?
I was being sarcastic about the little things but i guess in the scope of things depends on your perception.Oh and thank you !!