I think it's because often people jump too soon... say they and do too much too soon.. before they actually DO know each other.
It's easy to think you know someone on-line.. and/or on the phone.. but you don't.. you only know an *Idea* of them.. You wont know until you get to spend REAL time with them.
A young blonde woman in Niagara Falls was so depressed that she decided to end her life, by throwing herself into the Niagara River.
She went to the Rainbow Bridge, and was about to leap into the frigid water, when a handsome young sailor saw her teetering on the edge of the bridge crying.
He took pity on her and said, "Look, you have so much to live for.
I'm off to Europe in the morning, and if you like, I can stow you away on my ship. I'll take good care of you, and bring you food every day."
Moving closer, he slipped his arm around her shoulder and added, "I'll keep you happy, and you'll keep me happy."
The girl nodded, yes. After all, what did she have to lose? Perhaps a fresh start in Europe would give her life new meaning.
That night, the sailor brought her aboard and hid her in a lifeboat. From then on, every night, he brought her three sandwiches, a container of water and a piece of fruit, and they made passionate love in the boat until dawn.
Three weeks pass with the same scenario occurring each night.
Then,during a routine daytime inspection, she was discovered by the captain.
"What are you doing here?" the captain asked.
" I have an arrangement with one of the sailors," she explained. "I get food and water and a trip to Europe, and he's screwing me."
"He certainly is," the captain said. "This is the Maid Of The Mist."
(very funny IF you know what the Maid of the Mist IS)
Hmmm.. A masculine maaaan who is kind, considerate of other peoples feelings.. and one who makes me laugh.. (a lot) Intelligent humour.. not cheesy crappy humour.
Brain linking.. THATS very attractive to me.
Hands (but bitten nails.. noooo)
Mischievous Eyes- everytime!
Voice (that's a strange word when you say it a lot haha) words and pronunciation.. that always peaks my interest if I like it.
Smile
and something else that I could NEVER resist.. but I'm not mentioning on here..
RE: Recycling Waste
:: snaps gloves:: bend over.. let me check