Interesting points. I was recently asked why I am not in a relationship, and it was not so easy to answer that question. In my desire to feel special to someone, does that turn into possessiveness? I'm not sure.
What I do find intriguing in scanning through dating profiles is that so many people indicate that their interests and activities must be shared. Although I agree that shared interests and activities are fun, I would enjoy maintaining my own interests and would encourage my partner to spend time pursing his own interests with time away from me as well. Maybe it's my age and years of independent living, where I don't believe being tied at the hip is necessarily a healthy thing.
Yes. Maybe practice coming out from under that camouflage now and then, and watch how people magically begin to interact with you in a more open and positive manner.
I am absolutely not amazing. Life's experiences and journey are the best teacher, and yet, I still manage to stumble too often by listening to my insecurities and fear.
But they do get said. It isn't always easy to speak from the heart, this is true. But for me, necessary. It eliminates misunderstandings, misconceptions, and is a healthy basis for a solid foundation.
J, time travel IS possible! This song has blasted me back to a moment in the mid 80s. I lived in Bonn, Germany, I was in love, and I wore out the cassette playing it in my Fiat Innocenti over and over again. I've been looking for this song for years, but faulty memory sidetracked me, I was too set on thinking this was Tracy Chapman. Thank you my friend for this unexpected gift!!!
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can't wait to e-meet them all.Enjoy your day.
Hugz