But... don't you agree that everyone can be himself, without a mask, and confident at the same time? ... even a bit playful with the other gender? That's all it amounts to. It's like... I like you and I pay attention to you, but don't make the mistake to take me for granted. You don't say this, but you convey it with your attitude and way of flirting.
Sweets, what we've been talking about is not being dishonest or deliberately putting down women... instead, it's a way to flirt that is more likely to get results and the other person hooked on you. Imagine if there was no flirting whatsoever... wouldn't that be dull?
Gold is deemed valuable, not because it's useful in our lives or in industry or technology, but because it's rare and it shines. It's not just women who are like that, it's all of us.
You are missing the plot. There is interest. It just works better if you feign this non-interest yet pay attention to her, rather than to appear as you are all over her from day one.
It ain't a matter of manners or good character. It's only a technique to attract beautiful ladies.
A neg is active disqualification. It shows that you aren't hitting on a particular woman and don't have interest in her *at that particular moment*. You're not being mean, per se, you're telling her that she does not meet your standards of attractiveness.
Examples:
"You are nearly as tall as me. I like tall girls (LIFT). Are those heels 4 or 5 inches (DROP)?"
or
YOU: "I don't think we should get to know each other." HER: "Why?" YOU: "I think you are just too much of a NICE GIRL for me." HER: (whatever, it doesn't matter because she will try for you now)
If you say this seriously, you should also take into account the radiation from placing the cell phone next to your ears. I know... the mobile service providers say there is no/negligible radiation... but I don't believe them.
pierrot_le_fou Forum Posts (582)
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RE: The Blues
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