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I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby. Yesterday you were in your mother’s arms, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.—W. Livingston Larned3
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The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.—Galatians 5:22–234
A prayer for love and mercyWe need You, Jesus!—Gentle, loving Jesus, who wept for the multitude. You were so weary, and yet You looked upon the multitude and had compassion on them and healed them. As exhausted as You were, You didn’t harden Your heart! You stayed tender, quiet, and humble. You wept over them time and again. You didn’t want to see them suffer, and You wept for them.
Help us not to get hard. Because we’re in a hurry, the quick way is to harden our heart. We don’t take the time to soften and melt and love and care for others. Help us, O God, not to get hard!
You had so much to say against the hardness of hearts.5 Help us not to judge others with harshness, Lord. I make so many mistakes and don’t want to be judged harshly, so it’s not hard for me to have mercy. You’re so good to me, Lord, when I’ve been so sinful and such a failure. So I understand how You can help me to be merciful, patient, long-suffering, and kind.
We should put our arms around others and encourage them and inspire and show we have faith in them.
We’re in too big a hurry sometimes. It’s like getting impatient with a little baby. How many years it takes to grow up and for parents to teach and to train them—years of love and patience.
Help us to have patience. Help us to have love. Help us to be willing to take time.
If anything’s to be done, You have to do it, Lord! We have to wait on You, and know You’re the one. Not by power, nor by might, but by Your Spirit.6 We ask that You will teach us patience and faith, which takes time.—David Brandt Berg7
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If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any tenderness and mercies, fulfill ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord and of one mind.—Philippians 2:1–28
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Where true strength liesWe’re accustomed to thinking of strength as opposite to gentleness, softness, and tenderness. Yet this is not always true. During World War 1 British fighter pilots made an amazing discovery, that thick layers of silk stopped low-velocity shrapnel better than steel. So they wound the silk around their heads and then wore leather horse-riding helmets on top of the silk.
Scientists still aren’t sure just what it is that gives silk its strength, but it’s true, that in certain situations soft, gentle, tender silk can prove far stronger than cold, hard steel.
Jesus showed us the same holds true for human character … that gentleness, a heart that’s soft toward others, and tenderness are in fact qualities of great strength!—From storiesforpreaching.com9
Published on Anchor September 2015. Read by Gabriel Garcia Valdivieso.
Music by Michael Dooley.
1 NLT.
2 Philippians 4:8.
3 Originally published in People’s Home Journal. A version of this story on YouTube: ://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gig8KkpsWvI.
4 KJV.
5 Matthew 7:1–5; Romans 2:1–6.
6 Zechariah 4:6.
7 Originally published May 1971, adapted.
8 KJ21.
9 ://storiesforpreaching.com/where-true-strength-lies.
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