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When a job starts causing physical illness, what would you do? Considering your life experiences!

Get out, run away . . . far away!
25
27%
Wait it out, to see what happens.
9
10%
keep my head down and my nose clean.
3
3%
consider all options before making a move.
30
32%
fight for my rights and rights of others.
10
11%
start taking notes, get a lawyer.
13
14%
Strike!
3
3%
Total Votes
93
A rough summery of my situation: The company I work for began in a supper tiny shop, with maybe five employees. The same person has been the manager for about 20 yrs. We are now much, much larger, w/ about 100+ employees, in a college town w/ a...

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So what are you?

I'm still single- no dates in sight.
269
61%
I've had a few dates.
103
23%
I am dating someone casually.
30
7%
I'm in a fairly serious relationship.
21
5%
We are madly in lurrrrve.
19
4%
Total Votes
442
Anyhoooo... I was just reading another thread which made me think of this....

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With or without goatee???

With goatee???
51
42%
Without goatee???
69
58%
Total Votes
120
Ok...should I gorw the goatee back or not??? serious question here. I have a pic of each on my profile....

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what kind of tarts you like most

butter
9
22%
pecan
25
61%
raisin
7
17%
Total Votes
41
i like most pecan...

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Dilemma with my teen.. what would you do?

No chance!
30
39%
Yeah, go on .. let him you big meany.
11
14%
Yeah but ONLY if he catches the train instead.
36
47%
Total Votes
77
My son is 16yrs old (just).. To be fair to him.. he is well behaved.. and I do trust him. He usually (I think! haha) tells me where's he's been and what he's been up to. Is never late home etc etc.. Right well.. He and some of his friends wa...Read more

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If your a woman...do you rate other more attractive women's photos lower??

Yes..it makes me feel better
11
13%
No...
66
77%
sometimes...depends on my self esteem at that time
9
10%
Total Votes
86
Do You......

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Americans only- am I a thread killer because...

you don't like my comments
7
32%
you don't like the look of me
5
23%
you ignore the thread when you see the word punk
10
45%
Total Votes
22
coz I genuinely don't know why I kill threads! I I'm...

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Divorced 5 years, Daughter 9y still wants to live with her Daddy. Mom has a DWI w/child in car

Good and the Dad lets her see mom
23
31%
OK, unless theres somethin very wrong with the Dad
17
23%
Let her see Daddy as much as Possible
6
8%
No she belongs w/her mother
1
1%
Let Social Services figure it out
5
7%
Duh thats a no brainier
10
13%
Whatever you do. DO NOT let Social Services pick
5
7%
Social Services will just add to the problem
8
11%
Total Votes
75
I am researching the subject; Divorced with Children I might make some more. I thank you for your input, it is going to help a lot of Children. So Thank You Very Much! Concerned Persons...

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what is the day you don´t like the most for a dating?

sunday
13
25%
saturday
5
10%
monday
19
37%
tuesday
4
8%
wednesday
3
6%
thursday
3
6%
friday
5
10%
Total Votes
52
dating is a special day. Everybody likes to be fortunate to that occasion but for several reasons ( job, familiar days, studies or even buiness) it is not suitable into our schedule or agenda, so what would be usually a good day for that unpredictab...Read more

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Is it RUDE to IGNORE emails from People you Have previously Emailed???

Yes
28
33%
No -( if you have asked them to stop)
58
67%
Total Votes
86
Just curious as to the general view. eg. after a couple of emails back and forth, MY QUESTION IS:...

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Do you judge people before you get to know them?

I never
62
53%
Yes, I really shouldn't, it's not nice
21
18%
Yes, I need to stop, but it's so hard
10
9%
Yes, I like to make fun of them too
15
13%
Other - please tell
9
8%
Total Votes
117

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Only for gentlemen: how do you demostrate you´re a truly,"real" man to a woman?

using lovely words everyday
6
18%
into practice
15
44%
going through the "sexual scenario" only
0
0%
just talking to her and making her understand it
13
38%
Total Votes
34
the most demanding question that comes from women. From side to side , love is a tresury that everybody keeps on sight, so what about us? what about this side?Males aren´t to fake on them but how do we conceive that? and finally, is that effectiv...Read more

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Only for men: what do you usually do after a woman refuse/ block any of your cortege to her?

to change the way f treating her and attempt again
3
10%
not to change the way of treating but insist again
2
6%
to change the way of treating her but not insist
9
29%
not to change, not insist nor attempt (nothing)
17
55%
Total Votes
31
well, it s only for experienced men.However the scenario is diverse as well as the women. attitudes, values, habits as well as skills, performance and experiences are oon assesment so let´s see what is our reaction to the women´s assesment on u...Read more

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FOR ADULTS: WHAT IS MATURITY?

EXPERIENCE AND NEVER ENDING LEARNING
14
33%
RATIONAL THINKING AND THE WAY TO FACE PROBLEMS
11
26%
BOTH BEFORE ONES
11
26%
BODY GROWN AND REPRODUCTIVE PERFORMANCE
0
0%
TO BE RESPONSABLE AND SOCIABLE TO ACCEPT MATTERS
6
14%
BOTH BEFORE ONES
0
0%
Total Votes
42
MATURITY IS A REALLY CONCERN. NOBODY KNOWS SOMETIMES WHOM HE/SHE IS TALKING TO AND WHAT LVEL OD UNDERSTANDING IS IMPLIED IN TH RELATIONSHIP. MANY DO NOT LIKE TO CONTINUE INTO THE RELAIONSHIP BECAUSE THEREIS NO CONECTIO INTO MIND AND BODY SO WHAT IS T...Read more

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WHAT ARE YOUR MAIN CONCERN ABOUT YOUR PROFILE WHEN IT IS ON SIGHT

BAD TERRIBLE PIC
11
28%
SO FAR AWAY FROM ANYONE
12
30%
POOR AMBIGUOS MESSAGE
5
12%
BODY DEFECT AND/OR OUT OF DATE AGE
4
10%
NOT TOO MUCH MONEY OR INCOME TO OFFER
3
8%
MARGINAL OR EXCLUDED ETHNICITY
0
0%
PROBLEMS TO BE SOVED WITH MARITAL AND KIDS STATUS
1
2%
VICIOUS LIKE SMOKING AND DRINKING
2
5%
JOBLESS AND LESS EDUCATED THAN OTHERS
1
2%
STRANGE CULTURE
1
2%
Total Votes
40
Let´s see. It is really a key to have succes to show up an excellent "curriculum" to others . But we usually hide something and try to evade "something" we cannot accept , recognize or state when we want to be elected and be succesful . What are the...

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WHAT KIND OF EYE-LOOKING DO YOU PREFER WHEN CHOOSE A PIC?

DIRECT TO YOU (FACE TO FACE)
29
71%
DIRECT TO YOU (BUT FACE ASIDE)
10
24%
NOT DIRECT (LOOKING SOMEWHERE ELSE)
2
5%
NOT DIRECT (JUST BACKWARD)
0
0%
Total Votes
41
Pics are everywhere . nad they have a purpose or intend to. Which shot do you like the most? Do you think the eye-looking as well as the face position has an impact on this? have you ever thought of this when download a pic ? is there any real congru...Read more

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Photo ratings - what influences your rating?

Looks of person in photo only
21
21%
All aspects(looks,attire,pic qualit,bkgrnd,locale)
26
25%
Looks and if person is close in location to me
1
1%
Looks and what the background in photo says
6
6%
Looks and what the person is wearing
1
1%
overall "image" of what the pic says about person
28
27%
rate down/up based on how they treated me on site
4
4%
I don't bother to rate photos
12
12%
wow, I didn't know we could rate photos
1
1%
other-some other aspects or I just pic a random #
2
2%
Total Votes
102
I had previously avoided rating photos and even just now turned on photo rating for myself... Are Photo ratings, in general, a good or bad concept? We're all human, do we really need our ego's bruised and/or inflated in such a manner? Just asking!...

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If you were my soulmate

at the end of your arm
35
38%
waiting for you in your next life time
4
4%
in your mailbox
7
8%
under your couch
5
5%
search on google is your friend
2
2%
in a land far....far away
15
16%
I don't believe in soulmates
10
11%
I believe in multiple soulmates...timing
15
16%
Total Votes
93
Where would you be?...

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Whats the best way to deal with abusive posters?

ignore their threads
151
46%
report them
109
33%
tell em what you think of em
18
5%
hijack their threads
6
2%
allow their threads the attention they are seeking
1
0%
pity them
14
4%
respond with only hugs and pleasant emoticons
7
2%
point out rules on abusive bahaviour
10
3%
other suggestion
10
3%
send personal e-mail requesting more consideration
2
1%
Total Votes
328
There have been a few abusive posts in the last few days and months - how do you think it best to deal with these posters? My favourite is to ignore them and not let them have a negative reaction on the forum at all. Thanks to Dizzy Di who is o...Read more

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What would you do if others made you feel this way?

I would go away.
39
45%
I would stay.
29
33%
Other: Please tell.
19
22%
Total Votes
87
You felt like you didn't belong. You felt like you was hated. No one liked you....

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Who ...

wants to tint Fallingman eye lashes brown?
3
5%
wants to tint Fallingman eye lashes black?
1
2%
wants to tint Fallingmans eye lashes PERSONALLY?
5
8%
thinks Fallingmans eye lashes dont need tinting?
2
3%
thinks Fallingman needs GREEN lenses?
2
3%
thinks Fallingman needs BROWN lenses?
0
0%
thinks Fallingman doesnt need mascara?
0
0%
thinks Fallingman should post a nose pic?
1
2%
thinks Fallingman should post a lips pic?
6
10%
thinks polls like this should be penalized
39
66%
Total Votes
59

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WHICH ANIMAL YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE ... AND WHY ... YOU CAN CHOOSE ... OR SAY MORE ...

ELEPHANT
6
5%
RABBIT
3
3%
TIGER / LION / HOUSECAT
40
35%
DOG / WOLVE
16
14%
COCKROACH
0
0%
POISONOUS SNAKE / GIANT PYTHON
2
2%
EAGLE / FALCON
30
26%
RAT / MOUSE
2
2%
FISH
0
0%
OTHERS
16
14%
Total Votes
115
I know, that there are more animals you would prefere, but I could choose only 10 polls... ...so, you can add here also others... Eagle - that´s my favorite, because you fly all over the others, sitting in your eyrie, watching a...

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How can I improve my profile so I might find love sooner?

Please just email me your responces
17
22%
I would like to have seriouse replies only.
38
50%
Thank you
21
28%
Total Votes
76

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what do you think of Mindfful's first forum poll?

great
6
10%
an excellent example - she should do more
11
19%
ok but lacked enough eccentric detailing
6
10%
she should leave it to the polling professionals
13
22%
ask Gilly
23
39%
Total Votes
59
Roll up......express your view in the poll of polls!!!...

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YOU MUST..........AND YOU ARE...

leave this site
20
23%
stay here
10
12%
find another site
7
8%
leave elders alone
5
6%
not start threads
3
3%
behave well more than present
3
3%
behave like you behave at present
11
13%
AN UNWANTED GUY
9
10%
A NEEDY ONE
9
10%
AN INNOCENT KID
9
10%
Total Votes
86
Again a question...need to know who am i...? and am i doing the right things in these threads...?...

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